So I've been with a guy for nearly three years, and we fight and argue a lot. To the point where we break up & then, get back together. I honestly would have to say I start most of the time. I don't trust him at all.. He's never cheated but he would constantly lie to me about where he was or who he was talking. Though he says he doesn't do it anymore I still feel as if he does. He had a bad habit of talking to random girls online or his phone. & just joke around with them, though he says he stopped and he loves me I feel like he's doing something behind my back. I haven't had any proof but it's the small things. Like he went to a club a few weeks back when he went on a vacation & he came back to tell me he didn't go clubbing. Till I found out then, he finally admit it. He says he didn't want to hurt me but finding out from someone else hurts a lot more. We were friends for a long time before being together & he was always the flirtatious type. He says he doesn't do it anymore but I feel like he does.. Whenever we get into a fight he always says it's over and he can't take my accusations anymore & starts ignoring me. But, when we are good we are really good. We're very young and I know i shouldn't be stressed over this. I'm 20 & he's 21. I know we have our whole life to live but I don't know. I'm really lost & I need some advice.
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