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Old Mar 11, 2011, 12:46 AM
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So I've been with a guy for nearly three years, and we fight and argue a lot. To the point where we break up & then, get back together. I honestly would have to say I start most of the time. I don't trust him at all.. He's never cheated but he would constantly lie to me about where he was or who he was talking. Though he says he doesn't do it anymore I still feel as if he does. He had a bad habit of talking to random girls online or his phone. & just joke around with them, though he says he stopped and he loves me I feel like he's doing something behind my back. I haven't had any proof but it's the small things. Like he went to a club a few weeks back when he went on a vacation & he came back to tell me he didn't go clubbing. Till I found out then, he finally admit it. He says he didn't want to hurt me but finding out from someone else hurts a lot more. We were friends for a long time before being together & he was always the flirtatious type. He says he doesn't do it anymore but I feel like he does.. Whenever we get into a fight he always says it's over and he can't take my accusations anymore & starts ignoring me. But, when we are good we are really good. We're very young and I know i shouldn't be stressed over this. I'm 20 & he's 21. I know we have our whole life to live but I don't know. I'm really lost & I need some advice.

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Old Mar 11, 2011, 01:30 PM
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Hi ~ Well, obviously he HAS done some things in the past that MADE you not trust him. Now it's hard to trust him because he's lied to you in the past. He doesn't seem to be trying to earn your trust now. He just does what he WANTS to do, and doesn't take your feelings into consideration. I don't think I'd want to be with a guy like that. I'd want a guy who WOULD consider my feelings - and who WOULD try to earn my trust back.

It sounds to me like he's just a player. Do you want some guy like that as a husband? I sure wouldn't. I think I'd look for someone who was more kind and understanding -- and who wouldn't play with my feelings. This guy is a jerk. Sorry but that's what I think. God bless and take care. You deserve someone BETTER than this. Hugs, Lee
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