txting

my husband has some issues with his mobile he tells me ppl from work are txt him but he deletes these txt straight away, wont leave his phone lying around and gets very moody when hes ran out of talktime,

we went through this before when he was constantly txt ff which became such an obssesion that he was txt from the bathroom so i wouldnt know he had done this,

up untill recently he would leave his phone lying around but now its allways in his pocket when ppl txt ppl that they dont want any body to know who it is they change there name so last week he was txt one bloke this week another ,

i know he wants contact with this ff but i asked him not to do it behind my back he wants me to trust him but if hes being secertive how can i last wk he want out while i was at work and i know she went out as well ,

so tomorrow he wants to go out again but im at work again and dont know wat to belive im not going to stop him going but for the sake of my marriage i hope im wrong

ketheryn,
this is horrible, Its secretive and shutting you out.
You gotta tel him how you feel.

ATG

This is a hard one! I had exactly the same thing with my ex, one morning i hid his phone from him so he went to work without, i felt bad for doing it and i was shaking and felt sick as i went thru his phone........ but what i found out wasnt good either, so its a hard one that. Biggest huggies to ya

Hi!

From where I sit this looks gloomy. You did not ask 4 advice..so I won't give it. I wish ya good luck. Woman's intuition is a real true thing hon!!

TC

im really afraid he wants to be here but if this is wat i think i cant be here because i need honesty this time around , he wants me to trust him and hes afraid of loosing me but y should i have to go through this again

i also got problems with which bill to pay my mind has come up with the only way to sort this out is that we bought our house from the local housing assosiciation but now i cant afford the mortgage the loan even with his money this comes to over £800 a mth with out the over bills of everyday living and xmas is comming we are both on low paid jobs but with help from the govement but next year i loose some of that money because daughter will be of to uni then the year after my son will be 16 and if he has to stop taking his meds i will loose the money that i get for him so do i struggle for another 2 yrs to stay in this house i cant sell as i wont have enough to buy else were and pay back wat we owe as we only been buying for 4yrs if i loose the house which wont be nice they will rehouse me and my family as i have depedents then i will only have to pay rent which as i know from neighbours is only £300 a mth ,
i know this is not a nice thing to do but when i have to decide wat to choose from that isnt nice either im going to phone the mortgage company in a bit just plucking up the courage

i don't have any advice, but i care.....xoxo pat

I know exactly what you are going thru. DH has so many text messages and I never see them, he is so secret about everything. Gets so mad at me because I ask too many questions. He had an affair, and I still think it is going on.

Lots of hugs to you. I wish I had an answer for you