[stieg]

Sadly this year i haven't try, haven't found and haven't arrive to me that special person to love and share great times but nothing happened. I have a crappy job that doesn't pay me a lot(still hunting for another job), i'm a college drop out, still live with my parents(nope i'm not a star wars fanboy, trekkie or gamer), don't have friends to hang out with and my life sucks like horse poop. I don't have any F-ing idea what should i do. I fell like both arms chained at my back and can't move them forward. Another reason is a huge lack of dating skills so i don't know which first move i must choose. And finally i'm so dissapointed that my parents never ever seen me with a girl. I'm totally out of hope.

[aev3]

I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling so hopeless. Love has a weird way of showing up only when you stop looking - maybe because you become more focused on yourself, and other people are drawn to that.

It's hard to do much about the job or college, for economic reasons. Maybe you could spend some time developing a hobby that you really enjoy? It could be writing, drawing, playing video games, going for walks - anything that brings you joy. The best way to find love is to find happiness, first. Other people are drawn to it.

Best wishes.

[stieg]

Originally Posted by aev3

I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling so hopeless. Love has a weird way of showing up only when you stop looking - maybe because you become more focused on yourself, and other people are drawn to that.

It's hard to do much about the job or college, for economic reasons. Maybe you could spend some time developing a hobby that you really enjoy? It could be writing, drawing, playing video games, going for walks - anything that brings you joy. The best way to find love is to find happiness, first. Other people are drawn to it.

Best wishes.

I have some hobbies. I'm a black belt in tae kwon do and also learning portugese. It is difficult for me to enter the dating world and i do really need help but don't know where to find it.

[Soul Quake]

You need to work on your self esteem and gain a different perspective.