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Old May 01, 2011, 11:48 PM
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First I want to say I am sorry for I feel i post to much and I feel i am going to drive people nuts with all my problems.

The reason I am so sad today is that last night I went to my boyfriends house i told him I probably would not stay the night because I had homework to do and he does not have internet.I said that I could comeback in the am if he wanted. He seemed to have heard me, as he said ok. I thought.
So I work nights so I am used to being awake, so we went to sleep and I woke up at 2 ish and went home, i said goodbye when I left but he was half asleep so i sent him a txt when I got home to say call me in the am we can do something.
So I dont hear anything from him I text him around 1130 he texts me back at 12 saying "he could sleep all day" made it sound like he just woke up.

Well he then says he cant do anything he has a lot to do, I say maybe I can come too, a few minutes go by he says its mostly work stuff he will be at the shop.

Well later we talk because I am a bit upset, i thought we had plans and he made other plans.
He says I left so he made other plans, I tell him I TOLD him I would come back. He says well i don't check my phone as soon as I wake up, so I did not know so I made plans.

First you made plans with what?
Also he changed his fb pic at 7am (from phone) and I sent txt at 4am
and... He acted like he just woke up at noonish?

Maybe he was just mad and "punishing me"
Maybe he did not see my txt? But I don't believe it..
Maybe he had other plans with girl, or something.
I feel he is keeping something from me...
Paranoid?

I love him so much and I feel he is not as into me sometimes as I would like.

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Old May 02, 2011, 02:12 AM
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I just want the hurt to stop..
I hurt so bad..
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Old May 02, 2011, 02:20 AM
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I don't have much to offer you other than communication in this situation is key and you two have to discuss it further. He had to have got the text or he wouldn't have changed his FB picture and reply to your text later on saying that he was asleep. Obviously he wasn't asleep that long or he wouldn't have been up at 7 changing his FB stuff.

More than likely he is jealous that you didn't stay the night, and like you said is punishing you. Hope that it works out for you, but like I said, communication is key and you two have to work this out.
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Old May 02, 2011, 08:30 AM
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Hi ~ I agree with Emotionally Dead -- There's no communication. But something else -- he's playing games with you and that stinks. I'd let him know that I don't LIKE playing games, and he'd better let you know one way or the other where he wants to go with this relationship cause you don't like getting hurt. And tell him to STOP playing these childish games.

He MUST have seen your text. So start talking. He's being a big baby. Hugs, Lee
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