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May 29, 2011, 12:43 AM
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I am so mad at someone I know. Should I say something to this person or not? The reason why I'm mad is because I do not like the way this person is acting. I wrote a letter to this person but I did not give it to that person. What should I do?
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May 29, 2011, 04:23 AM
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oh boy, it all really depends what they have done, who they are to you and what your gonna say!
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May 29, 2011, 05:06 AM
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I agree with rapid - there are so many variables. Is it someone you're close to who you have contact with frequently? If so, I would offer constructive criticism to how they are acting. Be careful about how you are coming across though. Be assertive and try to offer ways to improve the behavior and mention ways their behavior is impacting you. Good Luck!
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#4
May 29, 2011, 08:56 AM
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I think writing down your frustration was a good move...read it again then shred it...not sure you would want the person to see the first version...
Once done evaluate what others have said here...
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#5
May 30, 2011, 09:38 PM
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I just want to say Thank You to everyone. Your guys replies and other people input help me out with the problem. I did not tell this person how I felt about their actions. This person was close to me but not anymore. I know this person would have gotten very mad at me. So I said to this person, "Good luck in life and hope everything works out for you. good bye." I decided not to be this person friend anymore but I did not say anything about not being friends. Should I say that not a friend anymore to this person?
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#6
May 30, 2011, 09:54 PM
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nah, id leave it. You know. And thats enough. Time to focus on you. Just let them go, do something nice for yourself today .
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#7
Jun 21, 2011, 10:12 PM
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I need help!!!! The person that I wrote about last month (the one I said I was mad at), I can't get this person out of my head. I am trying my best to forget this person but can't and I do not know why. How do I move on?
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#8
Jun 22, 2011, 08:28 AM
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Time does move us on...but if you want to attempt some closure...sit down with this person and let them know why it is that you haven't been as involved with them...let them know your boundary...then you've done what you can to let them know and if they continue to not respect the boundary...you've done your part and can move on from the friendship.
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