[lakerfan09]

hi, i met this girl at my work about a month ago, who i have began to like even more recently. Over the past month, we have been to the movies several times, had lunch as well as dinner other times. Indirectly, i found out she has a boyfriend, through one of her friends. Now mariela, the one i have been seeing, hasnt mentioned a single word about a boyfriend to me since we have been going out. she makes alot of signals that she is interested in me at work. she compliments me on how i look, laughs at every joke i make even if its not too funny, in my opinion and she also has the biggest smile when ever im around. Through this friend, i found out that has been in a long relationship for the past 3 years and she is about to turn 20 later this year. mariela and i go to the same school and even are working towards the same degree. The point i am trying to get at is im not sure where to take whatever we have? Should i find out what we are or just go with the flow and see if it works out? I am normally a patient but when it comes to issues like this i find myself more impatient. As well, if she were to leave him after such a long time, would i just be the rebound guy she sees? i want to make sure that we have something true before its too late and miss an opportunity to go out with her.

[Direction]

Welcome to PC!

Well now that you know about a current relationship, its probably a good time to put on the brakes and move on to another person who is available.