[Izraehl]

She said she wasn't interested, which makes me happy, or course. One of the building blocks that make up trust I guess.

So why am I feeling all possessive and jealous about this? I don't like this feeling and I keep thinking about it.

Also, it's probably something I should get used to. My girlfriend is very pretty and her personality is one in a million so I assume this will happen more frequently as she starts going to college more. Another thing, I bet one of these times she'll actually start hanging out with guys because she's into making new friends whether they're guys or girls. I told her I don't really like the idea of her hanging out with guys even if they are just friends, but she said something along the lines of 'well girls can have guy friends if they want to.' Which is absolutely true.

[lynn P.]

It's normal to feel a bit bothered but this is a normal part of life. It's great your GF was honest with you.

Feel flattered that you have a pretty, great personality girlfriend who isn't interested in anyone but YOU.

Don't know how long you've been dating but you will need to get used to this because it will keep happening, and if she is a confident girl she probably won't like a jealous, possessive boyfriend.

She wouldn't tell you about a guy asking you for her number if she was giving it out...she's all yours so be happy and secure in this!

[Izraehl]

Originally Posted by jadedmoonbeam

Feel flattered that you have a pretty, great personality girlfriend who isn't interested in anyone but YOU.

Don't know how long you've been dating but you will need to get used to this because it will keep happening, and if she is a confident girl she probably won't like a jealous, possessive boyfriend.

She wouldn't tell you about a guy asking you for her number if she was giving it out...she's all yours so be happy and secure in this!

She is a very confident independent girl and I know she'd hate it. Trying to nip this in the bud. I liked what you said about feeling secure in her honesty.