[radio_flyer]

Do men get angry if a guy calls their girlfriend at 4am? And the girlfriend said the guy that called, called her by error..

I asked AJ's dad and he said he'd get mad too..

My thoughts are "not" to be angry.. But then what do I know, I am twice divorced.. So I am searching other's opinions

What happened is some guy called AJ's girlfriend at 4 am and he is ooo so mad. She tried to explain and AJ wouldn't listen. She told me she'd change her phone number, but I don't know if she told AJ she'd change her number. But "my opinion" that isn't a good solution.......I think Trust is the solution.....She said she was all upset all day at work and she was crying this evening....

I gave her my opinion, "and this is the last time I will offer an opnion" because I don't give good opinions...........I said AJ is wrong...and a bunch of other stuff, which for whatever reason, I can't remmeber.....I don't want to get in the middle... They have to work it out..

Look, I stink at relationships..

I like AJ's girlfriend a lot.. She has a great personality.. People are drawn to her because of her personality.. But then she is beautiful too.. I am hoping they get married...But with all the drama so early in the relationship, not ssure what the future holds for them..

Just curious as to what other's think...

SO ... would a man get anygry if a guy calls their girlfriend at 4 am and she tried to explain the guy dialed her number by accident??????

Hiya,

I'm a woman, so I'll change it around for my situation. If another woman contacted my bf at 4am I would be pissed. Unless of course she was in crisis and leaning on him for support. Even then though, I would question his support of a woman who is seeking out unavailable men. Whatever the reason, it's not appropriate. I don't think AJ's gf need change her number. I think she needs to change her boundaries, or set some.

Love and hugs,
Tara

It would concern me most that the girl lied to cover up her ex calling her.

I cannot imagine calling anyone at 4am unless I was extremely intimate with them, like a deep intense relationship, and like Tara said in a time of extreme crisis...
so the chance does lie that i'd dial someone accidentally are pretty slim...if the girlfriend felt the need to change her number, it sounds like more than just a missed dialed number though. Maybe she should just turn her phone down at night.

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thanks Tara.....Good idea, turning it around... Guess if I was in a relationship and some girl called my guy at 4 am, I'd be upset, too...Setting boundries is another good point....Never thought of it in that way..

[Direction]

If this is the first time, I'm not sure a person should get that excited about it. Though I'm guessing that something has happened to one or both of them in the past that may skew a phone call like this.

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Illegal Toilet...Can't say "for sure" it was her x calling her.. Might have been someone that didn't know she was in a relationship...

She came downstairs last night and told me things are ok... She said AJ said all he wanted was to be heard and e xpress his "feelings"... Men have feelings too.

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Jadedmoonbeam....Turning her phone down at night is another good idea....As for the "friend's" error in dialing her number, "guess I "want" to believe it was dialed in error.....

Looks like ... ooops , I was wrong.....

[radio_flyer]

Direction... They both have "trust" issues.. As they both have been cheated on... Her last boyfriend of several years cheated on her a lot... AJ's girlfriend of several years, cheated on him.....This is an area they both need to work on...

Shhhhhhhhh... I still hear wedding bells in the background.....Or is that tinnitus..