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Jul 16, 2011, 01:32 PM
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Ok, I cant figure this out, but here's what she does. She's the most affectionate woman I've ever met. We were decent friends for 5 years. Confided in each other on a few relationship matters. We both became single at one point. We get together, hit it off so well, she wanted to be engaged within two months(I agreed). All she talked about was raising a family with me and living a perfect life. How much she loved me and hoped I never leave her. Then starts pushing to have a baby a month later. 3 different times I say not yet, its not in our best interest yet, but I do love her enough that I end up agreeing. Her father told me when I asked to marry her that she's moody and has a bad temper, but thats it. She's told me she cant keep a relationship that everyone ends up wanting to just be friends with her. So she gets pregnant, basically hardly talks to me. Two weeks ago she moves all her and her 9 year old sons stuff into my house, stays with me for a couple of days, then started staying with her sister for the past two weeks. she would be at week 8 of pregnancy. She gets irritated with me over absolutely nothing and defends herself to the death, never says sorry. Ive seen her do this to her other sons father as well. She just goes apeshit if anyone goes outside of her "plans". Sometimes she sleeps alot, but since summer hit she hasnt nearly as much. She went from listening to nothing but country music til she got pregnant, now she will not listen to it at all. she listens to like r and b. She also denies the fact that she was the one who pushed for being pregnant. Does this sound Bipolar?
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Jul 16, 2011, 05:12 PM
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Sounds like you need to look into this.
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Jul 16, 2011, 06:12 PM
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It might be. I suggest you find professional help for her. Good luck.
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Jul 16, 2011, 07:49 PM
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I think for the sake of the unborn child, your best course of action is to schedule an appointment with the doctor and to take the woman you have impregnated to the appointment and discuss your concerns about her behavior and the effect that behavior will have on the child and what your role should be.
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#5
Jul 16, 2011, 07:52 PM
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listen to classical music so the baby can chillout while its still in the tummy.
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Jul 17, 2011, 01:52 PM
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I would look into the Borderline Personality Disorder forum too.
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Jul 17, 2011, 03:42 PM
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Jul 18, 2011, 09:23 AM
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I'm looking into borderline personality disorder as we speak. I have an appointment with a psychotherapist tomorrow for myself. Im doing it just to get a grasp on myself and strengthen myself a little more for what I may have to deal with because none of this makes any sense other than she's pregnant and it may be hormones. But I've seen how she acts towards other family members and friends which she has very few and she always tries to get back the ones that screwed her over. like she cant accept rejection. She completely lashes out for the smallest things to her mom, dad, brother and sister...she talks them up so highly but when they do the smallest thing she completely flips out and starts telling me some very personal things and mistakes that theyve made throughout their life. Theres so much to this story I could go on....I just dont know how to approach her
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