[ace18]

So I havn't been talking to my sister for over a week now (we live together) and it is just worstening my depression. We are very different, complete opposites but are relatiionship has always been like this. I am always the one blamed for our problems (even as a child my parents automatically thought I was the culprit of our ongoing disputes).

The last argument was over how she always chooses her time with her bf over me. She sticks to her guns and thinks its a jealousy issue but that is completely false. I really need to talk to her about something VERY important and instead she continued to talk on the phone with her bf. The real issue is that she is never here for me and she only makes herself available on her terms.
I feel like she is so dependent on her bf and always has to answer the phone when he calls (and she rarely calls him). Also its like she needs permission to hang up the phone or else he gets upset.

In our fight before this one she said she doenst like hanging out with me because im so negative. Well if she cant deal with me going thu these difficult times of depression then good riddens.

Is it right to feel this way?

[Miss Laura]

Hey Ace18,

Ah!! Sisters!! I have a Twin Sister so I can TOTALLY identify with you here. We fight like cat and dog and I am always in the wrong/the one to blame.

I know this will be hard but can you try and approach her and try and mend the broken road? Sister bonds are so strong even if you hate eachother. You can maybe make a comprimise and say you will try and not be so negative if she makes some time for you?? My Sister and I will go to the cinema once a month and have a total Sister day out. We also every so often go on Pamper days for a whole day where we chill out in the swimming pool and get a massage. Things like this helps us to re-connect especially if we have been fighting.

PS... the longest we have not spoken is 2 weeks and that was when I lived on my own. We have always been together until I moved out and now that I am back living at home it's hard to not "bicker" lol

[ace18]

Thanks Miss Laura...I'll try to approach her whenever we home at the same time. Itll be hard bc im stubborn and feel like she should apologize/make the first move--but I'll begrudgely do it!!