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Sep 09, 2011, 02:39 PM
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i really didnt want to end it. i regret it. i am going to miss him terribly. txt friend or not. i knew though that i would keep pushing him for more. i know myself. i would have. this morning when i didnt get a good morning i knew.
it was time. i honestly believe he never will be ready. there is always life happening bringing hardship sadness and all kinds of emotions and if you cant be with someone during one then how can you be with someone during another. i am grieving. i keep looking to the phone to see if he will contact me knowing full well he wont. even if he ever is ready he wont come find me. he made sure to let me know that.
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Sep 09, 2011, 02:46 PM
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I'm sorry you are hurting at the moment. Stay strong; there is someone out there who will be "right".
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Sep 09, 2011, 03:10 PM
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I'll hurt with you... not sure how strong I am but at least you can feel my empathy for you. hugs to you
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Sep 09, 2011, 03:18 PM
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((bridgie))
 - I saw your other question and meant to respond. When this man said the relationship would "go painfully slow", this is a clear message the relationship wasn't going anywhere. I wonder if he's in a relationship or married?? Do you want more than an internet relationship? If you do then stay away from online ones - I really don't understand how people can build a connection when they don't spend time together.Sure you're going to miss the daily contact but I think you know you need more than just online contact. If you want a real relationship, then you need to get off the computer and venture out of the house. Maybe join some volunteer groups, or hobby group or if you belong to a religious organization, you can meet someone. What you actually miss, is what you thought the relationship could be, not what it really was. In the meantime, if you have some gal pals, go out with them and keep yourself busy. Give yourself a pat on the back for doing what's healthy for your mental welfare.
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#5
Sep 09, 2011, 04:41 PM
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((((((((((((bridgie))))))))))))
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Sep 09, 2011, 05:15 PM
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Im not in favour of internet relationships AT ALL. Honey you deserve more than that!
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#7
Sep 10, 2011, 02:21 AM
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He didn't get the message until late tonight. Told me he did want me there. That I was the one quiTting. I tried to explai but it came out all wrong. I feel worse than ever. What if he really did mean it. He seemed really upset. And if he did mean it then what have I done?
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Sep 10, 2011, 03:49 PM
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So I wen out into the wide world today feeling like I made a huge mistake. The sun was shining I was with family and we went out to eat and I enjoyed myself got out of my head where I was stuck feeling miserable and now feel pretty darn good. I just wanted to post something positive
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Sep 10, 2011, 04:12 PM
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That's a positive ((bridgie)). Happy you had a nice day and thank you for sharing!
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