[ssss2000]

I feel like tha I have some problems with my girlfriend and i really dont know what to do its like something i cant find out about maybe ican get some help here?

The is I feel like tha I am A needy person, I want her to care about me as much I care about her, Like recently I had an opration and get really sick after that, this opration happend on wednesday and she drove me to hospital and picked me up the day after, its all good untill then, but she and her friends had plan for a birthday trip so she she went on the trip, but meanwhile she was gone I had some expectations from her like she must texting me and asking me how its gone with me and stuff like that, she just text me twice in the whole weekend and the texting was just with short answers, be caus of that I get really upsett caus if it was her who was sick and I'll couldnt le be and not thinking of her or how shes doing.. i feel like I am very depending on her, how can i not be like that, it seemd like she didnt care for me, how its gone with me when she knows that i am alone and sick.

And when she was texting me it was all I miss u so much and cant wait to see u again, she said those things on the way back and when she was gone, but the day she came home again, she didnt came to see me, and its just 10 minutes driving from her to me, she said she has a little hang over so she stays at home with her parents, so what can i do what do u think?

Welcome to the Community, ssss2000. Perhaps you and she need to have a serious talk about what expectations each of you have for the relationship?