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Grand Member
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Jan 05, 2006 at 12:23 AM
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How do I bring something up that I haven't spoken about here before? Should I try and explain everything as I go...or just state what went on? The last time I tried explaining everything (my sister and her baby saga) it wore me out and I haven't been able to go back and post any more of that particular story...for various reasons.
There is so much that has happened, but I don't know how to: bring it up, talk about it, when to bring it up, how much to share... 
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Grand Magnate
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Jan 05, 2006 at 12:31 AM
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BP,
I often have the same problem. I dont know if I am sharing too much or too little or if I even make sense sometimes. I have learned that speaking from the heart, and speaking at a level that is comfortable for you is best. Is this a problem that you are having with a member here? Or a person issue in 3d? If it is a problem with a member here, I would PM that person directly or a MOD. But if there is a 3d issue, post here, if your comfortable, and when you are ready. Dont be afraid. We dont bite. Not hard anyway. LOL Huggles, Jen |
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Grand Member
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Jan 05, 2006 at 12:33 AM
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Its certain memories that I speak of, at present...it has Nothing to do with anyone here. I've never had anything but love and respect for the people of PC. This is just past stuff that has come back to my consciousness recently.
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Grand Magnate
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Jan 05, 2006 at 12:37 AM
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BP,
I beleive that talking about it is prolly best. But I say that with caution because I wouldnt want you to post something that your not feeling totally comfortable with. You need to feel safe and secure in whatever you post. Dont be afraid to post because of a reaction you have recieved in the past. Anyone who had judged you in anyway is wrong for doing so. I am here for you BP. Huggles, Jen |
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Jan 05, 2006 at 12:44 AM
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Only post what you feel comfortable about and what you would feel safe about posting. I know I always go into too much detail. So maybe skimming the top of it and only stating what happened in general would help.
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Poohbah
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Jan 05, 2006 at 07:11 AM
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Hi BP,
My thought is that what you need to share with us is a feeling. Of course there is a story, maybe very complicated, and some events that have obviously hurt you. If you are able to tell us how you feel about what has happened, then we'll do what we can to help. I find that I identify quite strongly with posts that share some hard pain, and I am not at all afraid to do that. Of course, I can't speak for anyone else, I just feel that I want to help out, whatever it is that has hurt you. As the others have said, though - only share what you feel able and ready to share. That's my contribution, anyway. Good thoughts, M |
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Jan 05, 2006 at 08:10 PM
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Thank you everyone for your thoughts on this...
There are somethings that I remember, but not fully--just parts of. Would that be ok to post as well? It is things that happened when I was quite young, in my family. |
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Jan 05, 2006 at 09:29 PM
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BP,
I think that would be fine to post, again, only if you feel comfortable and safe to do so. Thinking of you 
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Jan 05, 2006 at 09:33 PM
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I feel like an attention-seeker, asking what I can/should post...as well as the other amounts of posts I make. I may wait awhile
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Jan 05, 2006 at 09:36 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((BP))))))))))))))))))
Not at all hun. Not at all.
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Grand Member
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Jan 06, 2006 at 01:38 AM
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*kicks typo in the title* grrr, just noticed it tonight =P
I guess I'll have to wait until at least tomorrow to go into anything...and I actually have plans tomorrow--so it may be even longer =O Maybe I'll feel better about posting by then, anyway  {{{{{{Jen}}}}}} =) |
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Jan 06, 2006 at 10:32 AM
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when your ready xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Poohbah
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Jan 08, 2006 at 10:11 AM
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Ready to read when yer ready to post. . .
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Elder
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Jan 08, 2006 at 02:30 PM
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one way to ease gradually into the details would be to just post a few bullet points to start
- I was 8 years old - some friends and I argued - I felt bad ...something like that (I can fix the typos if you want ;-) ) __________________ thatsallicantypewithonehand |
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Jan 09, 2006 at 09:56 PM
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(I can fix the typos if you want ;-) )
Feel free if you see any in my titles...I detest typos! =O |
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Jan 11, 2006 at 08:29 PM
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((((((jen)))))above all...be kind to yourself. you'll know when you're ready to share....tc. g
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