[alliwantislove]

i recently got married and weve been together for 4 years. its been rough, good and bad. i love my husband dearly. recently i havent been feeling appreciated or even feel the love i used to from him. we are physically connected but not emotionally. i feel like am a nuisance to him like he doesnt wanna b around me. i believe am a good wife and i have stuck around throught alot of horrible things that i kno any other person would of left. i always start to wonder if he loves me anymore if i wants to me with me anymore. he tells me that if he wouldnt wanna b with me anymore he would of left already but his actions say a different thing.

hes such a flirtacious person he doesnt do it infront of me. he hides a lot of things from me. he thinks i dont kno but i do. i kno he as denied being with me that am just his babys mother i kno his asked girls for pics. hes a very sexual person as well which scares me too. bout a week ago ive noticed his been skyping with a co worker and i found him taking pics of her while on cam. nothing risque just regular pics. n i confronted him about him and he just said he was messing with cam n didnt kno how to delete them. whenever he does skype with her its while his in the bathroom. he says that she knows we are married. and hes always changing his passwords same thing with his phone. he never leaves it laying around. i dnt think his cheating but i dont kno what goes on in his little head of his.

when i confronted him he jus pulled the am just not gonna have any friends. he always says am too jealous. i believe am not but how can you not think things when he acts the way he does. i dont kno what to do

am i being too jealous am i over reacting? i dont kno what to think. i literally have no one to talk to about this i have no friends i live with his family. i have no family members around me. i just feel lost.

some advice please!

[Leed]

Why not ask him how HE would feel if you were doing the same thing. Turn the situation around, and see what he says. What if YOU were skyping a male friend? What if YOU had a cell phone and kept changing passwords, etc.? What if YOU carried men's pictures around with you cause they're "just friends?" I wonder how he'd feel about that?

Tell him how this makes you feel -- that it hurts you, and makes you feel insecure -- that you're afraid that he doesn't care as much as he used to and you feel "taken for granted." He can't know how you feel if you don't tell him.

I hope he wakes up soon -- it would be a shame to mess things up now. God bless & keep us posted. Hugs, Lee