Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Sep 24, 2011, 06:11 PM
ilisten's Avatar
ilisten ilisten is offline
Junior Member
 
Member Since: Jul 2006
Location: MD, USA
Posts: 18
for the last year and a few months I reloacted to live with my aunt and uncle. I met a wonderful guy that for half that time I have been dating. Now my aunt and uncle are kicking me out since i spend more nights not there and at his house. His family has already invited me to move in with them (before all of this went down) so I know I am welcome but I need to get a car (the only reason I didn't move out sooner) so I am so lost and confused as to what to do. I want to move in here (I have about a week to decide where I am moving) and I know i can but I am still hesitant. My work and life is here and my mom is 45 minutes away and my dad an hour so I don't really want to reloacte to them. I moved out from my moms because of all the drama and stress and my dad was never there for me before. advice please!? I love my boyfriend to pieces but I'm still not 100% sure it is the right move.
__________________
*Somewhere behind the athlete you've become, and the hours of practice, and the coaches who pushed you, is the little girl who fell in love with the sport, and never looked back.*

advertisement
  #2  
Old Sep 24, 2011, 06:14 PM
popeye's Avatar
popeye popeye is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Sep 2011
Location: USA
Posts: 341
I would move in with the boyfriend but have a plan B ...just in case.
__________________
You are not drunk unless you have to hang on while lying on the floor.
  #3  
Old Sep 26, 2011, 02:12 AM
specialeffects specialeffects is offline
Account Suspended
 
Member Since: Jul 2011
Posts: 36
Quote:
Originally Posted by ilisten View Post
for the last year and a few months I reloacted to live with my aunt and uncle. I met a wonderful guy that for half that time I have been dating. Now my aunt and uncle are kicking me out since i spend more nights not there and at his house. His family has already invited me to move in with them (before all of this went down) so I know I am welcome but I need to get a car (the only reason I didn't move out sooner) so I am so lost and confused as to what to do. I want to move in here (I have about a week to decide where I am moving) and I know i can but I am still hesitant. My work and life is here and my mom is 45 minutes away and my dad an hour so I don't really want to reloacte to them. I moved out from my moms because of all the drama and stress and my dad was never there for me before. advice please!? I love my boyfriend to pieces but I'm still not 100% sure it is the right move.
.
ilisten.
In what you have said here it seems , there are some personal goals you wish to achieve,[ car and some financial secureity ], it is fine that the parents of your bf accept you , {you never actually told us here your age}, but you said "advice please".
.
IMO , I would work with my family peeps that accepted me into their lifes. Not for direction, but for knowing You have the at the moment secured , and everythingelse, avail in your time as is moreso for you future. What you choose is up to you . But ,,, this maybe a, go with what you know time.
specialeffects
Se.
Reply
Views: 319

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 09:47 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.