[shoulditrust]

Dear all,
on the 23rd aug i and my gf was very loving, and she said it too that is real and happy and loving. Then came the bombshell. because of 23rd, few days later i went to book a hotel. then about 2 weeks from today, she told be that have have no feelings for me as because she was utterly disappointed that when i did not have enough money for myself i still booked a hotel and i also made her feel guilty becuz i kept asking and telling that i am curios why did she have no feel to have sex with me. But she say she give me one more chance so we were back together again. then one week later, she suddenly say the feeling is still not right, and when she is hugging me she hve someone else in mind. She said she just had a crush/good feeling for that guy and said she needs a cool off time for about a week s she is super confuse (dont if she still loves me, and what so ever). we are still in this cool off period, i did message her and tell her how i felt and how she was doing. but she seems super cold towards me and doesnt wants to think of anything. she did say she is not contacting the korean guy too.

Can someone advise me if we can still be together and what is on her mind? I did try everything i could to have her back, i told her about the places that we went, the happy moments that we had and how we get together. I hope this will help her to know that we are lucky to have one another.

[IceCreamKid]

I'm not sure what booking a hotel has to do with your girlfriend, but here is a suggestion. Find a new girlfriend and go slowly in the relationship until you know her and she knows you. Hold off on sex for two reasons: so you avoid contracting a sexually transmitted disease from a virtual stranger and because sex right away with someone new only makes it more difficult to form a lasting relationship. Any woman who gives you stories about having feelings for other men should be cut loose to go have feelings (and whatever else) with those men.