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Old Oct 18, 2011, 12:52 AM
pisceslove87 pisceslove87 is offline
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They say if you love someone you would want what's best for them if thats true then why does letting them go hurt so much?

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Old Oct 18, 2011, 04:56 AM
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They say if you love someone you would want what's best for them if thats true then why does letting them go hurt so much?
I'd like to help you with this situation but I need a little more information. Why do you need to let them go?
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Old Oct 19, 2011, 01:53 AM
pisceslove87 pisceslove87 is offline
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I'd like to help you with this situation but I need a little more information. Why do you need to let them go?

Because he's married and i know there's no future for us
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Old Oct 31, 2011, 09:21 PM
geneftw geneftw is offline
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I've been there. I've been there for over thirty years, in fact.
Why does it hurt? It hurts because of the loss. It's that simple....Well,...uhm...Almost that simple.

If you love someone, the pain of seeing him/her harmed in any way, or not be happy would make you more miserable than distancing yourself.

If you love someone you would want what's best for them. That ain't no "They say." That's just the way it is.

It'll hurt like the dickens for a while. You'll always remember, but you'll get over it for the most part.
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