[radio_flyer]

Guess this is a guy question? Would you be mad if your girlfriend was in the tub and a "male" who happens to rent a room has to use the bathroom and your g/f let him in the bathroom, would you be mad?

The bathroom is very small. Sitting on the toilet, your knees would touch the shower curtain.. Other than the "odor" ugh cuz it wasn't to just take a pee... ummmmmmm Would you be irked that your g/f was in the tub and the male renter, or any male, was using the bathroom too?

ANYway AJ was pretty mad about it. Because that is what happened. His g/f let the male renter use the bathroom while she was in the tub.

Then AJ said, his glf's sister is dating the male renter.. and over the wekend AJ's g/f drove the male renter to work, because he doesn't have a car and AJ's girlfriend's sister was here. She could have taken him according to AJ instead of his g/f.. would a guy be mad about this?

not a guy ..nor do i even play on on tv....BUT..

his girlfriend is so bad news! she is playing aj! the bathroom thing..besides being just plain gross is wrong. only one bathroom in the place? he couldn't wait? she should have said no. privacy issues. married couple is one thing (or a couple) but they are not a couple.

then she is driving him to work when someone else could have...

she is so playing aj.

honestly i still think there is more to her than meets the eye...my law enforcement gut is sending me rumblings...(or maybe that was just last nights chinese)...still would i trust her...HELL NO>

Depends upon the guy. I can understand why AJ is upset. Some other guy might not be.

[Sanada]

I was living in home a couple of years ago, and the landlord kept letting himself in the house, without warning.
He did it a few times , and I asked him to stop (in a polite way).
Once though (lol), he was letting himself into the house and my lover at the time was coming out of the bathroom wrapped only in a towel. She came to my room and told me he was downstairs. I went to him and (politely) told him how lucky he was to not have a sore face.
Not by me, by my lover. She is tough and would not hesitate to slap a man snooping about the house, esp when shes in the bath.

I have had friends in the past who had similar things like you have described happen in life. Some were fine that their g/f was in the tub and another house mate (male) was in there to. Personally I would 'not' allow a lover to be in the tub and knowingly let a house mate use the bathroom too. I would find that a bit weird. Sometimes though it is like Byzantine said...it depends on the people/persons involved.

[lynn P.]

As said by other posters....it depends on the the guy. IMO I don't think its appropriate. I'll be honest - the real problem is, its very difficult living in a house where rooms are rented. Its also hard for you living with an adult son who has his GF who also has her sister over a lot. There can only be one Queen Bee in a house so these problems will continue happening until one of the parties claims their independence. The whole scene is very weird - how can a man poop when she's in the tub and how can she stand the aroma and acoustics (trying to be delicate here). In any event it certainly wasn't a romantic setting.

[unaluna]

Isn't this the guy that usually pees off the back porch? I'm just glad/surprised he did his business in the bathroom for a change! As for aroma/accoustics - courtesy flush!

[lynn P.]

Originally Posted by hankster

Isn't this the guy that usually pees off the back porch? I'm just glad/surprised he did his business in the bathroom for a change! As for aroma/accoustics - courtesy flush!

I'm pretty sure Mr Pee-off -deck is gone.

[Vibe]

Well, I'll preface this by saying my girlfriend's kind of a wild and carefree type. If her doing weird little things drove me nuts, I'd probably be looking for another relationship. That said, I might find it a little disturbing... more for her than me. But I wouldn't be angry. If I thought it was inappropriate to the point that it bothered me, I'd just tell her and she probably wouldn't do it anymore. No reason to start a fight. Some people just have different boundaries.

It seems even more minor given AJ's gf's drug abuse which you mentioned awhile back. Now that would cause me to take notice.

[Typo]

I wouldn't be happy about the bathroom thing either! As a woman, I would never let another man in the bathroom while I was in the tub that wasn't my bf, partially because I would feel awkward and embarassed and secondly because it would be disrespectful to my bf.

This is totally inappropriate.

If this person needed to use the bathroom that badly, then the gf should have just hurried herself up out of the tub.

I wouldn't let anyone in the bathroom for a #2 on the toilet if I was in the tub. Sheesh.

[radio_flyer]

Stumpy... I don't know what she is doing! She is the type of person that you really like. But then she does some of the "craziest" things. Is also hard to be angry at her for a long time. I kind of think like you, that there is more to her that meets the eye...I am so confused about her.. But then "as a mother" I must be careful and not stir the pot.

Guess I don't want to hightlight her negatives because she has lots of "good" things about her too.. If I would be under the microscope, "surprise", you would find, I too have many faults/flaws... But then I've never shared a bathroom, naked, in a tub, with a man I've known for only a few weeks, while he used the toilet and my husband or boyfriend was watching tv in the next room....

[radio_flyer]

hankster... the peeing off the deck guy moved out last month. This is a new renter. He moved in the 1st of October.....

[radio_flyer]

Vibe.. you might have a good point with the "folks having different" boundries.. And I agree, it is not something to "fight" over. Just ask her not to do it again.

As for the drugs.. She was addicted to pain killers, a prescription drug. A few months ago, AJ broke up with her because of the pills, giving her a choice to either get help to get off the pills or end the relationship.. AJ is soo anti-drug. He has lost several friends to drugs and he just doesn't want it in his life.. So she went to another doctor and is under a doctor's care to help her come off the pain killers. She has been doing great. Guess it is two months she has been "clean". She even looks better....

[radio_flyer]

Typo... am with you in thinking it is "disrespectful".. All I can think of is the odor this guy must have left.. Taking a nice hot bath and the bathroom smelling sweet and some guy takes a dump.. yukkkkkkkkkkk

[radio_flyer]

redpices... Have a feeling it won't happen again..Nobody has said anything more about it.. Renter and AJ's g/f are doing the "I don't know what happened" that upset AJ..

[salukigirl]

You don't have to be a guy to realize that that is messed up! I would be massively upset if my bf did that and I would never EVER allow a man to come into the bathroom while I'm in the tub! I would hope my bf would be mad at me if I ever did that.

[Rubin85]

If she let him in that's means - "she's cheap" IMO
what kind of girl will let someone into a bathroom at the time when take a shower ? question is simple so ask yourself then but if am wrong, very sorry :*