[hoping4best]

The guy who i liked(loved,whatever) several yrz ago and who had got married and divorced later on,says that he loves me and wants to be with me. We have been in contact throughout this period and he is a really gud friend of mine. Though i have moved on from the romantic attraction phase.

[hoping4best]

I have told him clearly that i wont marry him.but he says that he will wait for me and he believes i will eventually get back to him.
Now what should i do? Should i stop all sort of contact wid him?but in doing so i will lose him as a friend aswell.

I would stop all contact but thats just me.

I would tell him its time to move on and talking to you is not helping the situation. So goodbye.

Then remove him from your phone and face book etc.

[Belle1979]

((((Jiakhan))))

I do remember this guy coming back into your life a little while ago with the same words of love.
It's not a friendship if he wants more than you are offering, in the end it will turn badly for you as he will realise that you have spoken the truth.
Stay strong and let him go from your life.

[Emotionally Dead]

Due to what I am going through right now I am probably not the best person to answer this question but I would cease all communication and do everything I could to put the thought in the back of my mind.

[nice girl]

Well you have to decide what you feel about him..If you are clear you don't have feelings for him.. then forget about him..

[hoping4best]

He's a good friend. He understands me better than most other ppl. But now he has told me that if i want to leave i can bcoz its my choice afterall. I think i should just go then.

[hoping4best]

I left him n he's gone for good. Doesnt contact me at all. Sometimes I miss the friendship we had but im happy that he doesnt bother me any more.