I remember I had a friend who had a boyfriend. I knew her boyfriend but the sad thing was... he wasn't very nice. He used to be nice until he met my friend. He changed. He called me fat. He mentioned about me being fat and rolling down a hill. I have forgotten most of his insults. I don't care about his insults now. I believe my boyfriend and not a scum. My boyfriend likes my shape and thinks I am beautiful. I remember on msn, he insulted me with words such as ginger. I'm trying to remember what he sent me but I have forgotten now. It's a good thing to forget. I broke down in tears. There are so many nasty people in this world. It's unbelievable what they say to you. So anyway, She said to my group of "friends". They shouldn't hang out with me or go anywhere near me. She called me a b**tc*. I remember I was sitting on a bench and I saw my friend and her boyfriend walking across a street away from me. I think my friend stuck up her two fingers at me but I smiled strangely. I was innocent, I didn't do anything wrong. But then my friend and her boyfriend split up. She added me on Facebook one day which was odd. She was nice to me all of a sudden. She told me she split up with her boyfriend. I was glad my friend was kind again. I'm with someone but being with someone doesn't make me nasty? So why did my friend and her ex - boyfriend act like bullies towards me?? I'm not sad thinking of this. I'm past it but I do wonder why she was acting nasty towards me all of a sudden.

[curley]

Originally Posted by happycheeks

I remember I had a friend who had a boyfriend. I knew her boyfriend but the sad thing was... he wasn't very nice. He used to be nice until he met my friend. He changed. He called me fat. He mentioned about me being fat and rolling down a hill. I have forgotten most of his insults. I don't care about his insults now. I believe my boyfriend and not a scum. My boyfriend likes my shape and thinks I am beautiful. I remember on msn, he insulted me with words such as ginger. I'm trying to remember what he sent me but I have forgotten now. It's a good thing to forget. I broke down in tears. There are so many nasty people in this world. It's unbelievable what they say to you. So anyway, She said to my group of "friends". They shouldn't hang out with me or go anywhere near me. She called me a b**tc*. I remember I was sitting on a bench and I saw my friend and her boyfriend walking across a street away from me. I think my friend stuck up her two fingers at me but I smiled strangely. I was innocent, I didn't do anything wrong. But then my friend and her boyfriend split up. She added me on Facebook one day which was odd. She was nice to me all of a sudden. She told me she split up with her boyfriend. I was glad my friend was kind again. I'm with someone but being with someone doesn't make me nasty? So why did my friend and her ex - boyfriend act like bullies towards me?? I'm not sad thinking of this. I'm past it but I do wonder why she was acting nasty towards me all of a sudden.

I am sorry you are associated with people who are on again off again. You must know you can not control what others say or do. If you are ok with your behavior then shine them on. If they do not approve of you for whatever reason then forget them. If you and only if you feel you have need to change certain behaviors etc then do so!

Originally Posted by curley

I am sorry you are associated with people who are on again off again. You must know you can not control what others say or do. If you are ok with your behavior then shine them on. If they do not approve of you for whatever reason then forget them. If you and only if you feel you have need to change certain behaviors etc then do so!

It's okay. I will forget about the past and what they said to me. I have better friends and I have better people in my life now. I know what I deserve. I deserve good.

[beauflow]

Go you happy cheeks! Yeah this sounds like kid stuff. But sadly adults do it to. Idk why. Ppl get strange. But i agree work on you That's all one can do.

But if your friend starts to be mean again Blah on that. Maybe ask what's up. Idk- i'm in confronting mood lately so maybe don't ask what's up- but i do know you shouldn't just accept it. If ppl are being mean for no reason , we can accept who we chill with and associate with best of luck!