[Nzeroid]

Hello, i'm a 16year old boy.

I have a beautiful girlfriend, but however it's problems.
we have a child togheter, a beautiful and healthy young boy, which i never met, he is adopted away.

Well, what can i say, we have our moments, but she is beginning to find me not intresting and want to explore what it means by being a teen, explore sex with others etc, this just make me feel furious and sad.
i can't sleep at night, i can't eat i'm just at rock bottom.
i mean, we do the same things everytime we're with eachother, sex, movie, pc games and music.
i can understand why she's beginning to grow tired of it. but what can i do?
i try to be more creative, and so on.
I just want to keep her you know, she's the one, been togheter on and off from like 2007..

It's like, i feel she is a apart of me, and i love her with all my soul, i just want to spend my life with her. so what can i do?

i would like to have someone to talk to about my problems or something.

[Yady Smith]

I think the first line says it all. You are a 16 year old BOY.

Don’t expect to be able to make lifetime decisions at your level of maturity. I’ve been in the same situation as you on at least two occasions. It feels like your whole world is caving in. Seeing your other half disappear in front of your eyes.

Your world is NOT caving in. All relationships grow stale over time, and I know just how much it hurts seeing her enjoying life while you sit watching on the sidelines. But sometimes (a lot of the time) people grow apart; it doesn’t have to be anyone’s fault. Life just happens, and you have to go with the flow.

Believe me, you will look back someday and think that this time was a very difficult time in your life. But you will get through it and you will become a man.

Hang in there!

[Caretaker Leo]

Welcome to PC. I have 3 sons who are in their 20's and have seen them go some of the same experiences.

I believe they would agree with me when I suggest to you that there is so much more life for you to experience and people to meet. What might feel like love now, might only be a first love. Perhaps that is the reason your girlfriend is moving away from you.

While it might be painful now, in time you just might discover that she is making a choice that is good for both of you.

I hope you keep posting and looking for support. There are many young people here who are sure to offer advice that helps you the best.

Good luck to you!