[UselessInLife]

Me and my ex were together for two of the last three yrs and have a 3yr old son together. I got in trouble for speaking to my ex who is married anyway. We decided to seperate for a few weeks jst to get some therapy started, but he took no time finding someonelse, Three months after he moved in with his mom temporarily I get a text from a girl sayin she has been with my ex (Ronnie) for 3 months he denied it and I was all to blame for what happened, and I believe him!! After 6 months we thought we would give it another try, now everyone said I was stupid for doin it! Know I am trying to be a good mom to my son and can't instead constantly crying, PLEASE, any advice? I have tried EVERYTHING!!!!!!

[DespondentDaisy]

Wow, that's rough! Maybe the best thing to do is go with your gut instinct. But don't try and make it work for you kids sake if you're heart's not in it anyway. And if he does end up to be playing you (hopefully not) the best thing to do is to remain civil for your kids sake. Don't let others tell you you're stupid. You can't help but feel how you do, especially if you care for him. Hopefully it works out, but if he's not right for you, don't stay and let him jerk you around. I hope this helps- I wanted to put in my two cents 'cuz I saw no one had responded yet and you look really upset. Good luck!