[connorc]

I just got into a relationship recently. I really like her, but it's long distance, but I'm ok with that. Anyways, she was supposed to text me last night when she got off work last night, but never did. I got worried and kept sending her messages but she never answered. This morning I woke up early to send her messages but still nothing. I got really worried. My friend said I was being clingy :/ next thing I know, she deleted me from Facebook. I've never been more hurt before in my life. Is she wanted to end it she should have told me :'( I really liked her. I was going to buy her a beautiful necklace for her birthday....I dunno what to do. She hurt me bad. I thought she was special

[faerie_moon_x]

I'm sorry this has happened to you.

You say it was long distance. How far of a long distance? Statistically, relationships over 25 miles in distance have a very low success rate (not impossible, just very likely to fail.)

I'm thinking that your relationship was not balanced emotionally. You like her a lot and she is special. But she doesn't feel the same. It is very rude to end things as she did. Also very immature. This is not your fault. If you were texting too much she should let you know, not just delete you.

I know you are hurt but save that money and take sometime to heal your heart.

[likewater]

Im sorry connorc. That was incredibly hurtful. Darkheart gave you good advice. I'm wishing you peace and healing. Also, i jope ypu find someone who lives closer to you and appreciates you, respects you, and treats you kindly.

[cutbuddie]

Connor, my parents took away my phone and hacked my Facebook somehow. I'm not allowed on the internet for at least two weeks. The reason why I'm on right now is for school. Im sorry. I text you as soon as my parents give me my freedom back.

[lexie86]

See there was a good reason! Hugs and in two weeks you two will be talking again.

[connorc]

Originally Posted by dark_heart_x

I'm sorry this has happened to you.

You say it was long distance. How far of a long distance? Statistically, relationships over 25 miles in distance have a very low success rate (not impossible, just very likely to fail.)

I'm thinking that your relationship was not balanced emotionally. You like her a lot and she is special. But she doesn't feel the same. It is very rude to end things as she did. Also very immature. This is not your fault. If you were texting too much she should let you know, not just delete you.

I know you are hurt but save that money and take sometime to heal your heart.

Thanks for the advice. We worked it out Thank you for being there for me

[connorc]

Originally Posted by likewater

Im sorry connorc. That was incredibly hurtful. Darkheart gave you good advice. I'm wishing you peace and healing. Also, i jope ypu find someone who lives closer to you and appreciates you, respects you, and treats you kindly.

Thank you for your kind wishes We worked it out

[RomanSunburn]

Coming from a successful long distance relationship, I understand how hard it can be! I just want to point out one thing -- don't let people who say long distance relationships don't usually work out, because honestly? Most relationships, period, don't work out. (There's a reason there's a saying about picking through a bunch of frogs to find your prince/ss). I'm glad you and your girlfriend were able to work through everything, maybe come up with a back up plan to avoid this in the future? Good luck!

I'm in a long distance relationship too. It does work.