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Dec 14, 2011, 09:45 PM
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this whole week has been nothing but hell for me...
my boyfriend and I broke up after a year and a half, and it's absolutely killing me..how can you love someone then leave them just like that? do you stop loving someone? I don't understand. I love him so much. and what hurts the most is that i'll never lay with him again, or fall asleep in his arms. it literally tears my heart into tiny peices.... i don't know what to do  i've talked to everyone about it,and they say 'oh it's just a high school relationship'. but no, no it's not. i don't understand... i can't live without him, i really can't. i really really really need someone to talk to. if someone would PM me, i'd be so happy
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Dec 14, 2011, 10:25 PM
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I can see that you are sad from this whole thing, but the pain will pass. It might take a while, but it will.
Think of love like water in a stream. You dip your hand in the stream. You don't worry about water that has passed through your hand, or water that is coming down from above. You simply lift your hand and drink. Live and love in the moment. Don't worry about things past or things to come. You can't really control any of that anyway. Just love the people who are capable of the not always easy task of building healthy loving relationships in the time that you have. |
 osamanda15
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Dec 16, 2011, 01:52 PM
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I am going through something similar and the only thing that helps me is to realize that I have no control over other people and that I cannot force them to love me, I only have control over myself. Since I can only change myself, I just try to live day by day, trying not to worry about the past and to not look so much into the future... just living life day by day and trying to make the best of it. I have really bad days but I just keep telling myself that I cannot love someone that doesn't love me the same way... so far, thinking that way has kept me going. Good luck.
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