will he ever come back to me...

it's been almost three months of no contact... and after one klonopin induced text where i slightly hinted at being sorry and missing him, i still got nothing.

i hate this.

i miss him.

i'm sorry if i was an emotional wreck. why do guys do this? i said some mean things and got angry, and now he refuses to speak to me...i guess that means he really never loved me. so cut throat.

You can't slightly hint at being sorry. That won't score you many points.

Personally, I think 'sorrys' are ********. It's more of the same ol' whose right and wrong game that people play non-stop.

Emotions (including love) are not static. Nothing stays the same. Even if you 'love' someone for 30 years, that love will be slightly different every day of those 30 years. Remember that when you say "I guess that means he doesn't love me." ********. He did love you. On some level, he most certainly still cares about you...but he's not giving you the response you want and you can't take that.

My advice: Ditch the passive texting approach (and all other passive approaches such as facebook messages - I know how you youngens think). Give it a few days to a week, and then call him, and express your feelings toward him without blaming, criticizing, finger-pointing, etc... OWN your emotions and let the chips fall where they may.

But what do I know? I'm just a former international dating coach and therapist-in-training.

It works both ways; why do girls say mean things and get angry (in unproductive ways)?

Neither you nor he is a yo-yo! If you are having difficulties with yourself and how you behave, you need to work on yourself and being a woman you want to be with, never mind making other people try to negotiate your issues, they have their own.

Maybe u can grow and learn from.this