[Pupil406]

I need advice from anyone that is very knowledgable about twin flame relationships.

I've met my twin flame without a shadow of a doubt, but unfortunately because current circumstances we are unable to be in a relationship.
However, when we see one another which is every week because we have a child together, we cannot keep our hands off of one another, we usually in up being intimate; afterwards, once he leaves I feel very sick. Not so much sad just a achey I miss him so much feeling, a longing if you will. It usually lingers for a few days then I am able to focus again until the next time I see him.

We both have tried to end the relationship even before we had a child together, but we always ended up back together. I keep telling myself to stop having sex with him but our energy is so magnetic, overwhelming; not just in the bedroom. It definitely is love there. Him nor I can deny this intense love we have.

I enjoy the sex, it is out of this world. I have never experiences such love physically, emotionally, spiritually, or mentally. Literally our love-making transcends far beyond just physical planes. But it is afterwards, for me at least, where I miss him sooo much. I cannot seem to focus on anything else until a few days have passed.

My question, should twin flames continue to be intimate even when at the moment we are not able to be together? We both are single, but he has other issues going on not allowing him to fully commit right now. Is this healthy for us or should we stop having sex? And if so, how do we get passed the magnetic energy that keeps pulling us to wanting to be intimate with eachother?

Thanks for your help.

[di meliora]

Hello, Pupil406. Sorry, I am not able to be of much help. I get the impression you feel what is going on is wrong for you. "Other issues" is vague. Have you talked about whether these "other issues" will be resolved and when? There is the possibility he wants sex and you want more.

[Perna]

I would weigh the negative impact of having this person in your life at all at this time against what you receive. It sounds like your own flame, your fire is threatened by it and your #1 life task is not to be with your twin flame, but to protect your own from danger or going out.

If I were you, I would separate completely from him until he feels able to commit. He is protecting or manipulating his own flame by not committing and you need to protect your own, adjust your own to account for that. The only way you can be whole-flamed it sounds like is to cease interacting with him in any way until he can be whole-flamed too.