[madisgram]

This guest article from YourTango was written by Tammy Nelson.
Can you really ever trust someone again after they’ve cheated on you?
Marilyn said, “He says he doesn’t talk to her anymore. I want to believe him.
“But I am so suspicious all the time. I hate that about myself. Maybe I should just end it. It hurts to not trust him and he is sick of me asking him all the time if he’s seen her.”
Trusting someone isn’t easy after they’ve betrayed you. You want to believe what they say, but can you really ever know if they are telling the truth, once they have lied to you? The answer may be “Probably not.”
But the good news is: there is a way you can learn to trust again. Just not in the way you think.

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archive...artner-cheats/