Confused and Hurt....

hey all,
i ha ave been with my partner just over few years and in that three years we have lost a baby, he has been to jail and he has been to hell and back on drugs, been to rehab, its been hard and i find that we got through things and were a strong couple, i feel pregnant last year and at eight months lost the baby and he has been totally nasty hating me and all we do is argue, he gets physcial and i dont know what to do anymore even know i love him but am not sure if he loves me we still seem to get by... it hurts me so much, we dont have many friends and we tend to be around each other all the time... i am a big girl and he is so handsome girls would drop at his feet. as we both dont talk to our family sometimes i just wanna leave and i know he gets to the point where he feels the same, we need to do something i dont wanna loose him but im all bumb out, confused sad and hurt.. i just want him to say it will all be ok and move forward.....

I strongly advise you to get out of the relationship now.

I cannot see forgiving him for fighting with you physically any time. Even if he is depressed and angry that you miscarried, the abuse is inexcusable.

Btw, my sincere condolences to you for your loss. I can't imagine how horrible it feels to lose a baby. Gentle hugs sent to you for strength and support.