[iseepurple]

on top of everything, I just had a fight with my best friend, she says that i don't put in enough effort into the relationship . I have noticed that we have grown apart since before, we used to be really close and now we are not. I don't want to loose our relationship
CAn someone please tell me what kinda of things what I can say to her to make things better, just talking points? so i have something to say to her,

thanks heaps x

[di meliora]

Hello, iseepurple. Welcome.

[ColourBars]

Hi iseepurple. That's a bit of a tough one, it really depends on what kind of relationship you have with the person. I'm sorta going through that in my own way so what I said to my friends was, "Sorry, I don't hang out as much as I used to. I'm going through a pretty tough time at the moment so I'm not really hanging out with anyone much. I'm just trying to get through this thing and get back on my feet. I hope you'll understand. When everything is resolved, I'll totally hang out with you then when I have more time."

[keithgloor]

Maybe write her a letter explaining your circumstances and mail it to her?

[iseepurple]

Yea I think a letter sounds like an interesting way to tell her how I feel and all, I don't know what it is, maybe i just need a bit of time to think about this and respond carefully because i don't wan a loose her.

thanks guys great advice