[Panda_Girl_17]

Is it bad that I have feelings for two guys? And what makes it worse is that they're best friends.

[KeepGoing8]

It's not bad to have feelings, but, especially since they're best friends...you have to choose one and act on that. If you lead 2 guys on...it's the shady kind of game playing that good guys ( all guys) HATE when women play on them, and a wrecked friendship or two is a bad basis for a good relationship. if you want to wait for who makes the first move cuz you're a traditional gal, and you like them both equally, take the guy with the balls ( e'hem) to ask you out. If you really prefer one for good reasons: like you like hanging out with him an you think ur compatible...not: which one's hotter (that route's usually a letdown in the future...)
Good luck!

[Panda_Girl_17]

Originally Posted by KeepGoing8

It's not bad to have feelings, but, especially since they're best friends...you have to choose one and act on that. If you lead 2 guys on...it's the shady kind of game playing that good guys ( all guys) HATE when women play on them, and a wrecked friendship or two is a bad basis for a good relationship. if you want to wait for who makes the first move cuz you're a traditional gal, and you like them both equally, take the guy with the balls ( e'hem) to ask you out. If you really prefer one for good reasons: like you like hanging out with him an you think ur compatible...not: which one's hotter (that route's usually a letdown in the future...)
Good luck!

Im so confused I dont even know. And the worst thing is that they know that I do I have feelings for both of them. Two weeks ago, Guy A asked him if I really liked Guy B. I said, "No, we're just friends." And Guy A told me that Guy B thought I was gonna ask him out. And I feel bad for lying to my Guy A. Ive been distancing myself from him but I dont know why.

Guy A told me, that he doesnt like me, but I still really like him. And for the past four days, hes been telling me that I will find a guy to be with in love with. And he will love me.