[doggiedo]

So here I am, again. Sorry if I bore you guys, but I don't really have any friends I can talk to about this.

I gave my b/f a key the other day - I could only find the extra key to my apartment, but not the building I live in. So, I was only able to give him an apartment key and I said if someone else was coming into the building, he might be able to come in.

Today he joked that You think I'm holding the second key?" It was just annoying that he doesn't trust me. I asked him if he, really felt that way, and he was laughing when he said "I don't know?? Maybe.." I had to run anyhow, so we called it a night and we both hung up. I didn't want to make it a big deal, but I am kinda upset that he would think I would do that.

Tomorrow he is coming over after work - he gets out before me. I'm a little offended. I don't even really want him to come....

I think I'd like to be with someone that doesn't question me about that. I would NEVER do that. I'd also admit if I didn't wnat to give him a key - I don't play silly games and give someone ONE key! Who does that?

[dailyhealing]

Can you say that to him? That you were offended? I find it hardest to communicate my feelings when I've been hurt or don't feel my feelings are valid (which historically is most of the time). But I have learned that when I do communicate my feelings directly I feel better about myself, and often there is a good outcome! Good luck to you!

[Scotty204]

At least he got a key, that says alot about how much you trust him