STD-3 dreaded letters...

I have been in a committed relationship now for 4 months. We both been happy and faitfull

In the beginning of Feb my bf calls me from work, starts telling me he needs to talk to me. I said what is it about? He tells me STD's, then his boss walks in and he couldn't finish the conversation, which got me spooked, sitting there at work wondering what's going on... after i work i called him and he explained that his friend called him and told him he has an STD. I said ew, sorry to hear that.

I always go for STD tests every 6 months to a year, i havent had that many partners but just out of comfort, i like knowing im safe.

My bf is the only person i've been with since my last test.

Today i called my bf to say hi, and there was no answer on his cell, but i had a gut feeling to check his machine... and i did. and this is the msg i heard
" Hi there _________ this is Dr________ calling in regards to your urine test you had on Mar 14th and the Dr would like to speak with you about it. Please call us back."

The msg was left on Mar 20....2 days ago.

My bf never told me that he went for this test he never told me he had concerns. But i told him 2 weeks ago that i thought i had a bladder infection, he said just get it checked when i have my gyno appt next week.

I called today to confront him about the msg. He said he got a call 2 weeks ago from the health board saying someone he slept with in the past year has clamydia (sp). so he didnt want to freak me out but he went for a test.

i am feeling very confused and require some good sturdy advice aside from going to get tested, i am doing so tonight trust me. but im crying freaking out pissed off wanting to cut at work and i dont know how should i be feeling!

Help please

relax, breathe, everything will be ok.

It is definetly not a crisis.

Chlamydia is totally treatable, just a course of antibiotics.

Your boyfriend obviously did not know that this person had chlamydia. So its really noones fault I think, and you should just focus on making sure you are ok. When waiting for the results of std tests, i know it can be hard as hell. Try and distract yourself. Your boyfriend probably wanted to get tested, that way if nothing came up he wouldnt even have to worry you about it.

I think you will be ok.