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Old Apr 27, 2012, 03:09 AM
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Fair comment.
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Old Apr 27, 2012, 12:20 PM
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I'm still super nervous...I dont wanna lose another friend to drama :/
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Old Apr 27, 2012, 01:06 PM
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I'm not sure how old you are or if this is high school but it sounds like it. My daughters in grade 9 and its so annoying the amount of flirting that goes on. Lets pretend this isn't school and a couple is having problems etc - its downright painful seeing your partner flirting with someone else...especially if they haven't officially broken up yet. Something else to consider - people shouldn't dart right into another relationship, even if they were officially broken up -that person needs to get over the other partner fully...otherwise be prepared for baggage. Flirting should only be for totally single people. If he has problems with his GF then he needs to air it out with her...not justify his flirting ways by talking about her cheating.
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Old Apr 27, 2012, 02:20 PM
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:/ Its Highschool...And i didnt talk to him >.<

Its like he's mad at me... I gave him back his hat, and he just seems annoyed with me.

So Confused right now.
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Old Apr 27, 2012, 02:32 PM
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I say find a single cute guy to flirt with...there are just too many of them out there to get stuck on one with a girlfriend....how about a hot guy who doesn't flirt with other girls? Sorry, just me, but I find faithful types just a bit more appealing I guess....
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Old Apr 27, 2012, 11:15 PM
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I say find a single cute guy to flirt with...there are just too many of them out there to get stuck on one with a girlfriend....how about a hot guy who doesn't flirt with other girls? Sorry, just me, but I find faithful types just a bit more appealing I guess....

They are... >.<
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Old Apr 28, 2012, 09:29 AM
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:/ Its Highschool...And i didnt talk to him >.<

Its like he's mad at me... I gave him back his hat, and he just seems annoyed with me.

So Confused right now.
My daughter's in grade 9 so she tells me all kinds of stuff. When a couples relationship is on the rocks and one of them starts flirting with someone else.....this spreads around the school, like wild fire. This news most likely traveled all over the school to his GF and her friends...so he's dealing with the backlash. If he's a guy with decent morals, he probably realized his spontaneous actions weren't good, therefore regrets it. Many teenage boys aren't good communicators, so pretending /ignoring you, is his way of dealing with the social awkwardness of flirting, when he still doesn't have closure with his GF. There's also a lot of game playing too- for example he may have felt its justified to play flirting games with you, since he's bothered by his GF doing what she did...payback.

I agree with Lido - find a guy who's kind and doesn't flirt with every girl he sees. A guys who still has emotional strings to another girl will never be fully yours. I wish I had an older person to coach me when I was younger. Good luck.
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