[2kidsandadog]

I am in a very passive aggressive relationship AND I think he's looking to cheat, or has or something. He was acting VERY VERY strange yesterday with his new droid phone like typing on it, putting it down when I entered the room, etc... He did this several times AND was in general acting very very weird. He doesn't normally keep putting his phone down and pick it up when I leave. Normal behavior is like the rest of us, doing what we gotta do whether someone is in the room or not. It's not as if I could even see his screen to even really know what he was doing.

So when I brought it to his attention and asked him what was going on with his phone and that I got a very strange feeling, he ignored me and seemed very nervous. It took me ALL day to finally wear him out and kept asking the same question over and over and over again till he exploded and told me there was nothing to tell and that I was wrong.

I personally think he's lying and covering his ***. He screams that he doesn't know how to use this brand new phone yet he's managed to activate the GPS, down load apps and access facebook. Sounds to me like he knows how to use it. Whatever he was doing, he never said what it was and ultimately screamed at me and said what he did on his phone was his business.

Just really needing to vent and wanting to hear from others who experience PA men, or have in the past.

[Irreplaceable]

Does he have a lock and code on his phone? If you look in his phone, be prepared for the worst...This sounds suspicious...It doesn't mean 100% that he is cheating, but this whole scenario doesn't sound good...Trust your woman's intuition...You know his "normal" behavior...If he is acting out of character, there is most likely something to it...Phones and Facebook will continue to be the death of relationships for people who are unhappy or looking to cheat...Pay attention to the signs...They are all there...

[2kidsandadog]

Originally Posted by Irreplaceable

Does he have a lock and code on his phone? If you look in his phone, be prepared for the worst...This sounds suspicious...It doesn't mean 100% that he is cheating, but this whole scenario doesn't sound good...Trust your woman's intuition...You know his "normal" behavior...If he is acting out of character, there is most likely something to it...Phones and Facebook will continue to be the death of relationships for people who are unhappy or looking to cheat...Pay attention to the signs...They are all there...

Thank you so much. I don't think at this time he has a passcode etc... He threw his phone on the table and said "there go through and look". The kicker is I questioned what he was doing and then stupidly left to go to the store. So, he had plenty of time to call off who or what or delete anything. I realized after I left that I should have asked to see it BEFORE I left.

Well, you are absolutely right that phones and facebook will destroy relationships. Yes, my intuition is screaming at me now. I can't get him to confess anything. He knows of my ex husband's cheating past so shame on him for even going there with shady behavior.