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May 28, 2012, 07:10 AM
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ok so I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now, not a super long time, but it feels like its been a while. Recently he has been EXTREMELY controlling, like asking me what im doing, who im with, why im with them, etc. He gets really mad when i hang out with other guys and most of my friends are guys. He will literally call me screaming at me and leaving nasty messages if i dont answer. i broke up with him once because i got so sick of it but in a matter of 2 hours i got 17 text messages, 28 missed calls, and 13 voicemails from him, so i took him back so he would stop. after that he was being really cute and sweet but now we are back to him yelling at me for everything! including the fact that i want to hang out with my brother who just graduated from college and is going off to china for a YEAR. and he is mad that i wont go visit him because i want to see my brother. He also starts crying all the time if i hang out with another guy, which kinda makes me feel like the man in the relationship, i dont even like kissing him anymore. but he has so many issues i feel like i cant just leave him, like he has panic attacks and he will call me repeatedly at 4 in the morning until i answer just so he can have someone calm him down. like yeah i care and i want to help but ive had enough and at this point i just dont know how to get out of it without being a b****
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 IowaFarmGal
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May 28, 2012, 07:37 PM
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Don't feel like you have to be responsible for this guy. Don't just turn and walk away.....run! Now if you really want to be with him and enjoy taking care of someone emotionally, he may be for you. It sounds like he would suffocate you rather quickly.
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May 28, 2012, 09:26 PM
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I think your first instincts were right, and the fact that he continues to suck your blood like a leach is not a reason to keep him around. Any chance you could change your phone number and move far away? I think you should be as firm as you need to be and not worrry how he thinks about it. Do what is necessary.
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May 28, 2012, 10:23 PM
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My advice is, get out. It's only going to get worse. Don't stay with someone because you fear you will hurt them. You will only hurt YOURSELF More.
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