[roseamoo]

All I ever do is get mad at my girlfriend anymore. I'm always upset, not because I'm just mean or am looking for fights, but I ask her not to do certain things that trigger me or make my moods just change faster than usual. I have to ask her over and over and over again to not do one simple thing, and she still won't listen. I'm tired of being upset with her all of the time, and it feels like she doesn't even try until I threaten with serious things, like ending the relationship. I don't like to do it, but it's the only time she ever listens to my requests. It's making me want to give up on everything. I have no more will to fight.

[Leed]

What is she doing that bugs you? Is your request reasonable? If she's continually doing something (that isn't really a "normal" thing to do) that really bugs you, why do you stay in the relationship? It seems like she's being pretty cruel to me. If you've asked her time and time again, I'd just say "goodbye, it's been nice, but I can't take it anymore."

Pretty simple, huh? Don't let her walk all over you. You don't deserve that. Wave goodbye on the way out. LOL

God bless and I wish you the best! Hugs, Lee

[InTheShadows]

I just wanted to put out there that it's not healthy to threaten to leave. I also wanted to ask, what is your part in it? It can't all be your gf, it never is all one person. Looking at our parts in the relationship may give us clues as to where we need to grow.

Hugs,
ItS