[crazylife]

A few weeks ago i had a breakdown while with my 2 best mates, i got so low and just lost touch with reality really i ended up slitting my wrists and fighting with them. They didn't take me to hospital or anything just forced me to stay which made it worse sent me into flashbacks due to PTSD. I am better now and i have said sorry to them but they just ignore me and the female mate took everyone else from me by spreading viscous lies and it worked but now a few weeks on i have learnt in my life i have a great boyfriend and a amazing best mate i never realized how great she was and a few friends, so i have learnt the hard way who is meant to be in my life but it makes me sad just how bad they treated me because i was unwell, it hurt and almost killed me - but it didn't.

[Leed]

Good grief --- that female "friend" surely wasn't a friend at all was she!!! I certainly don't understand why she'd spread nasty rumors when she KNEW you were ill !! Some people are just pain cruel through & through. You're better off without her.

I'm glad you have GOOD people in your life who will support and uplift you. Just remember that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem!! Things NEVER stay the same -- even when they're bad!

I hope you're in counseling -- if you're not, please contact a therapist and start counseling. You won't regret it. It really helps ALOT.

God bless & take care. Keep in touch. Hugs, Lee

[crazylife]

Thank you for replying.
I love that saying about suicide it always makes me think twice.
I am in therapy but since all this happened I've distanced myself from him which I didn't and shouldn't have done.
She called him and told him so much rubbish but he told her that he didn't believe her.
She tried that with my jobs to told them I was to mentally ill to be kept on but both jobs were very understanding and took it all with a pinch of salt .

[Leed]

This so-called "friend" actually called your therapist and your jobs??? What is WRONG with her??? Is she nuts or something??? That is absolutely the nastiest thing I've ever heard! I'm SO glad that no one believed her. Wow, she's a real piece of work. You are so lucky to be rid of her.

I'm sure things will start looking up now. You've gotten rid of that dark cloud over your head. Blue skies are coming. Please take care. And keep us posted on how you're doing, ok? Hugs, Lee

[bowhunt72]

All I can say is wow. I can't believe someone would actually go that far out of their way just to be nasty and vicious. I know it's supposed to take all kinds, but some kinds I'd really like to live without. Enjoy your improved life without her.

[crazylife]

I know its terrible and its somethin I wouldn't do to my worse enemy but there is.people Luke that out there
unfortunately and I only find out when its to.late but I am starting to be.more careful now.