Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old May 14, 2012, 11:37 AM
Lily2's Avatar
Lily2 Lily2 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Mar 2012
Location: Eureka, CA
Posts: 32
So...i have a better understanding now. Yes. Ive gotten older, my body isnt what it was, but i still have guys checking me out, so im not hideous...i checked my husbands phone yesterday & theres gay porn on it. I have never checked his phone before because
1. I dont believe its ok
2. He never leaves it sitting around (yesterday he forgot it )
Hugs from:
Anonymous33145, faerie_moon_x, kindachaotic, lynn P., Mike_J

advertisement
  #2  
Old May 14, 2012, 01:11 PM
Anonymous33145
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
ohhh nooo. What a shock! Ugh. When you have a chance to gather yourself, I would talk with him immediately. Your well-being, good health depend on it.

We are here for you. Keep posting and let us know how you are doing!
  #3  
Old May 14, 2012, 01:22 PM
Trippin2.0's Avatar
Trippin2.0 Trippin2.0 is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: May 2010
Location: Cape Town South Africa
Posts: 11,937
I can only imagine what that must feel like, confusion comes to mind 1st tho... I agree, you need to speak to him, as calmly as possible, bcoz answers are what's needed. Please keep posting, we're here to listen every step of the way. XOXO
  #4  
Old May 14, 2012, 08:10 PM
PsychGirl123's Avatar
PsychGirl123 PsychGirl123 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Mar 2012
Posts: 47
Oh my goodness Yes, talk to him immediately.

Hang in there.
  #5  
Old May 15, 2012, 11:48 PM
shezbut's Avatar
shezbut shezbut is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Feb 2009
Location: Rochester, MN
Posts: 12,565
((Lily2))

Yeah, that would be very concerning to me! I'd be wondering if he's just been in the closet for a long time, and that's why he's seemed so uninterested and irritable.

I hope that your talk goes well with one another and that you're both able to be very honest. Perhaps you'll gain a stronger friendship and lose the negativity.

Best wishes!
__________________
"Only in the darkness can you see the stars."
- Martin Luther King Jr.


"Forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness but because you deserve peace."
- Author Unkown
Reply
Views: 323

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 07:27 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.