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Old May 22, 2012, 11:05 AM
mckymse01 mckymse01 is offline
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I am having an issue with my boyfriend of 2 months. I cant seem to trust him and it is driving him nuts. He has given me no reason in his past or the present not to trust him. How do I just let myself go and trust him?

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Old May 22, 2012, 02:24 PM
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If he is giving you no reason to mistrust him, then this is an issue with you and not with him. If he's proving he's trustworthy, then what is it in your past that makes you unable to trust?

Although it can be hard to do, depending on your past, you cannot judge people by others actions. Not being able to trust him will push him away.

This is probably something that will take you a long time to resolve. Are you seeing a therapist?
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Old May 22, 2012, 02:39 PM
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I am having an issue with my boyfriend of 2 months. I cant seem to trust him and it is driving him nuts. He has given me no reason in his past or the present not to trust him. How do I just let myself go and trust him?
((((mckymse)))) i have learned that you have to trust yourself first before you can trust others.

Perhaps there is something from the past that is preventing you from trusting now. Have you discussed this with your T?

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