"Breaking up" with a best friend

I'm so glad you were able to focus your thoughts and give things one last effort. Did you ever get an answer from her or any clarity about what happened?

Sorry it ended up that way but you know...her loss. It's something she'll have to live with and that's unfortunate. You can walk away and know that you tried to find a resolution. You did the right thing.

Thank you, I really appreciate that. Unfortunatly, I did not really get any clarity. I tried to talk to her about all our issues, and I was in no way blaming her for how our friendship has turned out, although I did try to explain how things she has done and said really hurt me. All I got in response was her telling me that I'm selfish and the lack of friendship between the two of us is all my fault. I may not be perfect, but I know I am not a selfish person, and I know for sure everything was not my "fault." The last thing she said was "tell me right now if you want to change and be friends again because I'm not wasting my time". That was what made me decide to tell her we wouldn't be friends anymore. I have kept through this friendship for months and months being hurt by her words and actions but never considered it a "waste of time" as she was such a long time friend.

I know I tried, and as much as it sucks it seems it has to be this way now.

That sounds like you got clarity to me, at the very least in that she's really not in the right place emotionally, to be willing to admit any faults or see the value in your friendship or how she's made some poor choices to be accountable for. Consider it a weight off your shoulders.

Keep your chin up, girl

Misery loves company! Sounds to me like she is a unhappy person inside and wanted you to be one too! You don't need that, if it is a friendship that is suppose to be there it will be, if not you did all you could do! Next thing she will start talking crap don't listen, be happy enjoy your life!

Thanks for the supportive words everyone I actually do feel like there is a weight off my shoulders. Just trying to remember the good memories yet move on.