[sweetandsour]

wat is there to say now. i've given in.. i've put back my wedding ring. wanted to divorce desperately but he didn't want to let me go. (i hope it is sincere)
he said he doesn't knw or understands how he did such a thing.
i wanted to punish him but in so doing i was finishing myself and it would have ended by disturbing my little angel's life.
but my heart still aches that i gave in so easily at times the thought comes to my mind again i think of that woman "b" y me??
but now i took a decision so i have to go ahead with it.
i realised that to constantly point out his infidelity to him makes me most unhappy and divorce will also bring in loads of complications. sooo..
i don't know if its the right thing to do i just don't want to think about it or talk about it again.
i just want to live my life well in myself and proud to be me simply..

[Leed]

So you're staying in the marriage? Do you think you can forgive him?

Why not try marriage counseling? It might help you to learn how to forgive. He made one mistake --ok. But DON'T forgive him a SECOND time if he ever does it again!!!

You two can make this work if you learn how to communicate and how to "fight fair." Once this issue is settled, you never want to bring it up again. Bury it and let it die. Then you two can start fresh, but counseling WILL help you both.

I wish you the very best. Take care & God bless. Hugs, Lee

[sweetandsour]

yep Lee i'm again in it. hope not fooling myself but right now i'm at peace and have a positive approach to life.
forgive him i don't know if i've done it coz when the matter comes to my mind again i get the same feeling of disgust but i sweep it away soon so as not to be negative again. in fact IT IS the second time..hmmmm
better not think on this matter....