[LadyShadow]

I don't know if this a trigger or anything. I just wanted to vent on here a bit. I knew a handsome doctor that I really wanted to be in a relationship with and we used to engage in phone sex all the time. He just called me when he wanted that of course. Anyway, recently he saw me online and I told him I had a boyfriend and I was finished with him. He asked if he could call me. I told him no. He then turned around and said that I was fat way fatter than my picture was and that he would never want to be with someone that fat.

I understand it was his anger because I didn't want to engage in any phone sex anymore. He says he's married and he has a kid on the way, yet he's still trolling online for sex and phone sex. It makes me so mad that he could say all those nasty things to me, and since I am on yahoo to talk to a friend, (I blocked him on AOL), he sent me a request for a video call. Did he really think I was going to go on cam with him? I guess it's my own fault because I let him get away with it for so many years, and he thinks I am an easy target. But what I don't understand is since I am so fat why did he want a video call? I don't know I am so angry and venting. Sometimes I don't understand men, They have a wife and child on the way yet they continue to be online pigs and predators.

[The sphinx27]

WTF is that crap? What a *** he is. And the fact he has a wife and kid and he is trying to meet someone for online sex makes him a piece of s***. He probably thinks that because he is a hot shot doctor that he can do what he wants and get away with it. You did the absolute right thing. You enjoy your relationship and forget him.

[insideout]

Platinum,
It's not your fault, and obviously you are desirable even if you are "fat".
He is just being immature and is mad cuz he can't have his way.

You dont deserve to be treated like a piece of meat, and you owe him nothing.

He was just in it for self-gratification.

It doesnt take away from your beauty and desirability just because he's a perve.

If a guy just wants to call you when he needs phone sex or any kind of sexual stimulation, he is NOT the right one for you and isnt worth even a second thought.

[insideout]

and if you were ever his patient, contact the board of medicine.

[LadyShadow]

Thanks for all your kind words. He was not my personal doctor but I do have all his information and where he works. Parts of me wants to expose him, but I believe in karma and I would never maliciously hurt someone even though I hate his guts right now.

[The sphinx27]

Clearly you are a good person

[Puffyprue]

(((((((((Platinumheart)))))))))))))

he is a jerk .jerk will be a jerk

dont let this bring you down ignore him and continue to be happy , you are good person and he is the miserable one

If he calls you, save the message. If he writes to you, save the message. if he requests anything of you online, take a screenshot of this request or any string of conversation.

Make sure to also keep the messages in which you've asked him to leave you alone.

If he continues, take everything to the police department and file a report. They will pay him a visit. Stalking is against the law.

((((hugs))))

ps, just because he is a doctor doesn't make him a good person.

[pretty_me123]

It's ok to vent. You did the right thing by not engaging him. He IS a PIG, just be glad he's not your pig to worry about. Ignore him and don't let it anger you. Doesn't matter if he calls you fat, even if you were skinny he was going to find something harsh to say simply because you rejected him. Don't waste your time thinking about it!