I brought "stop walking on eggshells" about living with a partner with borderline personality disorder AND b4 i've started reading it it's helping !

I found my other half reading bits of it the other night after an eruption and today he's admitted he can see that i'm always walking on egg shells so not to upset him and admitted that his illness can make him a nasty person at times WOW !!!!! Thank you "stop walking on egg shells" this new enlightenment may not last but that he recognised it once means so much

and it helped us talk and come to the conclusion that because of his bpd our relationship is difficult and we both likened it to; us being in a relationship but being from 2 totally different cultures with different morals, traditions and languages trying to not only communicate across the barriers but build a life together. There are clashes and we can't always see why or where the other is coming from, made worse by the communication difficults. BUT DIFFICULT FOR US BOTH !!!! It means so much that for at least that brief time he could see that