he heard me! yay!!!

So its been a few days since i asked for advice about my fiance. After i put all that advice to use he started doing all the "little" things that mean the world to me. Now keep your fingers crossed that he keeps up the support and help with me.

And thanks for all the great advice from everyone!

That's great jmomb! Really great! Now let's hope it continues, huh? Keep us posted, for sure! I'd love to hear what happens! Big hugs, Lee

Great; hope he keeps on keeping on.

It's funny how its always the little things that mean the most to us in a relationship. I am in the same boat as you, with my boyfriend not doing much of those little things. In therapy 2 days ago, we talked about it and my T told us to make lists of what we want the other person to do, and then each day pick at least 1 thing from that list to do for the other person. Yesterday, he actually kissed ME... instead of me kissing him. I love that he initiated it! Can't wait for more.

fingers crossed for you hun

So its been about a week and he's still doing the little things that matter yay!!! Im so happy that he finally gets it! It takes so much stress away from me. Like today for example, its 4th of july and of course we had plans to go to his families but my TMJ was acting up. I was soo stressed to tell him i didnt want to go. But guess what i didnt even have to say anything! He saw i was in pain made me tea and said why dont we just stay home and relax and ill make dinner.... I was like what?! Am i hearing things? Did that really just happen?! Its a revelation, he actually gets it, like really gets it!

Thanks for all the support from everyone it means alot to know there are still people out there that genuinely care