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Jul 11, 2012, 03:09 PM
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I'm so mad at myself...so mad....
I loved dancing with this guy...I think I showed him so much attention that he didn't deserve at all... Last night, when he got to the club, he didn't even pay attention to me...stupid me, I went and said hi to him....then I asked him to dance....after few dances, he told me he needed a break....then he passed one song, and after that he danced with another girl over and over....and he never came to ask me to dance at all.... I was so pissed...mostly at myself for making him so big in my mind.... He was always all over me and dancing a lot with me....Sunday, I asked him to come over to my new place to help me out...he did...so as couple of other friends of mine....and he helped me to paint the room.... He doesn't speak English that well....and it's very difficult to communicate with him.... I think last night, he wanted to show me that he doesn't care about me at all....well...he did a good job.... Then I got pissed and danced with different guys including his brother.....He doesn't even talk to his brother....and that was my first time to dance with his brother....I hope I made him jealous! His brother was even a better dancer! But at the bottom line....I really love dancing with him....we just have a great Chemistry....but I think I'm developing something more for him....and that's a no no....He's not for me at all..... I'm so lost! |
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Jul 12, 2012, 12:36 AM
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Hi ~ You posted this same post on July 2nd. Obviously it didn't work out then, so how is it going to work out now? LOL
I'm sorry sweetie, but it looks like he's not interested. I know it hurts -- I've had that happen back in the day too -- but we have to accept it, and move on. You're just torturing yourself. Forget about this one, and find someone who cares as much for YOU as you do for HIM. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee 
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Jul 12, 2012, 01:17 PM
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We have a big social gap between us....and I don't think any love or interests can conquer that gap....he has so much insecurities and at top of that he can't speak English....so he can't express himself.... He's a shy guy....and I love dancing with him....next time I see him, I will talk to him because I want him as my dance partner and he wanted too....He told me several times that he's available weekends.... He's not a guy for a long term relationship for me at all....I won't be happy with a guy that goes to the clubs all the time and not having a good education or a decent job....I would never sign up for that.... I was bad...all I wanted just xxx! |
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Jul 13, 2012, 11:48 AM
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Hi everybody....
I would like to give you guys update! I was totally right. He's interested in me more than even me being interested in him. He texted me yesterday asking me to go for dancing. Then he told me that his cousin will come with him. I think he wanted to let me know that she's just a cousin and doesn't create confusion. I went with my friend and we got their late. He came to me and said hi. He even talked to me and asked me if I'm mad at him because he left without goodbye! He told me how much he likes me and how much he likes dancing with me. And we danced the night out. oh boy...what is this Chemistry between two people? When I'm around him, I feel so relaxed. He has this positive energy that I can't even explain! but in a flip side, I know we are not for each other at all  this shall pass too!
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