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Old Jul 12, 2012, 10:37 PM
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I was dating this guy all of May. The last time I saw him was the first weekend in June. That night we did something. Then he went to go see his sister that lives in another state for three weeks. The day before he came back, he told me something. Well lets say that I'm clean, I really don't know about him. Just have to take is word. Anyway, now that he is back not talking to me. I text him two time and got no answer. I'm very upset by this. I try talking to my friends but they were no help. One friend said that I should just for get about him. My other friend said that he could be hiding from me because he is lying and could have something to worry about. I don't know what to think now. A part of me want to write him a letter to him and tell how I feel about how he is acting. I don't know what to do.

PS. I am angry that he not talking to me. I just want him to answer my texts. That is it!!

I was starting to really like him too.
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Old Jul 12, 2012, 11:06 PM
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Hi ! I would say that his silence is telling you a lot. Evidently he is "calling off" the relationship. So you may as well move on with your life and find someone who loves YOU as much as you love HIM.

I don't see any sense in making yourself miserable over someone who evidently doesn't feel the same way about you as you feel about him. So just forget about him and move on sweetie. He's just not worth it.

I wish you the very best. Take care and God bless. Hugs, Lee
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Old Jul 14, 2012, 07:11 PM
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I know I should move on with my life. But there is a part of me that wants to be friends with this guy. I don't know if he even wants that too. How do I tell him or ask to be friends?
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Old Jul 14, 2012, 07:40 PM
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I wouldn't talk to him at all. Let HIM make the first move to talk to YOU first, and then you can tall him you just want to be "friends." And make it clear that it's a FRIENDSHIP that you want and nothing else. This man is toxic to you. He probably is playing around, and can't be truly 'faithful' to anyone.

So be sure you make it clear. But don't contact him. Let him contact you. Best of luck and God bless. Hugs, Lee
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