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#1
Dec 09, 2003, 02:06 PM
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men when they are with their partner in a restaurant or in an other place they always stare with astonishment a beautyful woman that pass by .why? men dont know that they break our heart?i never understand it.anyway...
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#2
Dec 09, 2003, 02:08 PM
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amen...boy can I relate to that one and many more instances of it I wont get into right now...I empathize , serq....boy, do I.
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Dec 09, 2003, 02:19 PM
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Haven't found one yet that is better than a woman or can do a better job...........
Mary Alice  
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Dec 09, 2003, 06:14 PM
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don't expect anything different if your man does that. it's in their nature to be stimulated visually. ((((Huggs))))
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#5
Dec 09, 2003, 08:04 PM
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Sam looks around - WONDERS if he is the only man in this room full of women ... hopes not ... BEGANS TO WORRY ... looks around for the closest door or what the heck, I'll even settle for a window! Scratches head ... sweat starts popping out ... he can't stand it anymore ... HE RUNS LIKE HELL (after all - his stepmother only raised one foll and it wasn't him!
Seriously, I agree too many people bases too much on what another person looks like, when they are out with another. And I will agree that men seem to be the largest number that do that sort of thing, but, I won't lable all men as being guilty of it, and will also lay claim to have known some women to do the same thing. I've been known to take a few dates home early because of such. And for the record - I've never done this. It does come down to respect and there is nothing as rude to the person you're with than to show interest in someone else. As humans, it is only natural to be attracted to others, but there is a right time and place for everything. When I date a woman, regardless of my level of interest in her (But of course, if I date her - then I am interested or I wouldn't be with her) - I make her my focal point and make sure she knows I am with her. Sometimes - people just need to be taken out back to the woodshed. There's just simply no excuse for rudeness. Your friend Sam "You'll never know what you're capable of if you don't try."
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Dec 10, 2003, 07:34 AM
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:::::::taking foot out of mouth::::::::::::::::::::: I am sorry - my comment wasn't directed towards you or any man on this forum......[sigh] Just realized I snapped without looking around me. Forgive me? Mary Alice
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#7
Dec 10, 2003, 09:28 AM
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Thanks Sam. Having foot in mouth dis-ease, I was sure I'd screw my reply up badly. My eyes and my attention are focused on my beautiful wife when we go out, it shouldn't be any other way.
Thanks for putting this so well! bp "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." |
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Dec 10, 2003, 10:06 AM
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I'm with ya on the woodshed idea....and I have jsut the "switch" for the job..."SOME" men can be such insensitive jerks(I stressed the some you two caught that right?)
On behalf of "some" of the men, annd speaking as a woman, I will acknowledge the natural reaction of finding someone attractive. I guess I dont get the blattant way some men show it and have no care or concern of the person they are with that they are sposed to care about. I have so many specific incidents above and beyond the one mentioned that were very insulting, hurtful...and in the end damaged my sef esteem immensely but I'm not comfortable talkign about them yet either. Still a big self esteem issue so. We can forgive them for being human...but its hard toforgive insensitivity if you love the person you should have a LITTLE thought of their feelings right? sometimes they need a good smack upside the head. though I doubt that would really help but......sometimes it'd of madfe us feel better anyway. |
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#9
Dec 10, 2003, 10:07 AM
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*sigh* the good ones are ALWAYS taken dangit...oh wait..Garth got divorced didnt he???HMmmmmmmmm*perk* (laughing sillily)
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Dec 10, 2003, 10:07 AM
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ahem ahem...of course if I walked into the room...well I expect all eyes to be on me
 since the red carpet is rolled out for me. I am sure I have my tiara somewhere (hey Jen or Heidu??? have you seen it anywhere?)Seriously though....it all boils down to respect. Respecting yourself and the one you are with.  Heather "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life - it goes on." ~~Robert Frost
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Dec 10, 2003, 10:12 AM
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*makes a note NOT to eat at a restaurant with a date where Heather goes*...wait a sec...I dont do dates *phwew , Im safe*
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#12
Dec 10, 2003, 12:02 PM
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i agree that some people see only how a person looks like but this is wrong...in my opinion of course...
i also agree that there is a right time and place to do this... but...i also wouldnt like my boyfriend look around behind my back... |
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#13
Dec 10, 2003, 12:42 PM
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Ah Heather.... just exactly how do you get that ah...er....um....tiara through the doorway?
Back to the penalty box....damn! All my love Heather Feather, bad bp "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." |
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#14
Dec 10, 2003, 03:29 PM
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Peeking at Sam and fluttering long curly eyelashes (I only have those in cyberland!)
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Dec 11, 2003, 07:04 AM
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I have never noticed my husband do this when we are together. He is such a great guy
I know that he probably does when he is with his friends, but that doesn't matter to me. I know that I can trust him completely. Although, he doesn't like it when other men look at me that way......Funny how the tables turn sometimes...lol.
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Dec 11, 2003, 11:03 PM
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hahaha ... (((((*Tomi*))))), don't worry sweetie - I knew you weren't talk about us all - just the bad ones.
(((((BP))))) You're welcome! And thanks for poping in - thought I was going to have to make a run for it and that would have been a problem for me. You see, I've never ran from women before (yeah, I know - I SHOULD HAVE!) and so they would have certainly caught me. Poor little me! I happen to think you do an excellant job posting. I certainly admire you for your ability in posting. Post away friend. Your friend Sam "You'll never know what you're capable of if you don't try."
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Dec 11, 2003, 11:06 PM
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Sam looks at Willow and wonders if she bought those long eyelashed with Chat Cash or a Cash Check??? You reckon she gets all that Chat Money there in Cyberland? hmmm ...
Love ya, Sam (who bought a set of nice thick eyelashes once but could never figure out how to put them on ... sighsss) "You'll never know what you're capable of if you don't try."
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Dec 12, 2003, 08:08 AM
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Well Bp
if you must know....I do have a big head so I have to turn sideways so my tiara can fit through. heehee Heather "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life - it goes on." ~~Robert Frost
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Dec 12, 2003, 08:09 AM
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heehee Hey Willow....Sam is mine
heehee...so flutter those eyelashes all you want .Heather "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life - it goes on." ~~Robert Frost
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#20
Dec 12, 2003, 04:34 PM
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awwww come'on Sam... how can you resist these baby blues! Heather... you gotta cat scrawl on your hands sista... LOL!
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Dec 12, 2003, 10:52 PM
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hehehe ...
Now how could I ever resist??? <giggles and thinks this could get very interesting!> Love ya, Sam (who is beaming) "You'll never know what you're capable of if you don't try."
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Dec 13, 2003, 07:31 AM
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cough cough ahem ahem ...ohhh yoohoo!!!! Grand Poohbah Heather is waving over here with her blue eyes fluttering too ya know
as well as doing the hair over the shoulder flip .Heather "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life - it goes on." ~~Robert Frost
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#23
Dec 13, 2003, 12:56 PM
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I think I like this a lot better than the online dating scene.
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Dec 13, 2003, 04:31 PM
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Ohhhhhhh! A Grand Poohbah!
hehehe Sam loves the attention he seems to be getting among all these beautful women! Looks at Heather ... looks at Willow ... looks at his TWO arms ... hehehe ... and thinks, one would fit on each arm. Boy! Wouldn't he look grand then! And then he falls out of his cahir and wakes us to realize it was only a dream.... or was it??? Sam (who loves ya both) "You'll never know what you're capable of if you don't try."
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Dec 13, 2003, 11:00 PM
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You have two arms... two legs... two hands... two feet... But only one... ummm nose! However... your nose does have two nostrils. How many other twos can we count? *theme from sesame street playing in background* *giggle*
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