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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I know everyone is going to say leave him. Well, nice thought, but I have no where to go and no money of my own yet. I was just approved for SSI and have not even recieved the approval letter. I am in a constant state of turmoil. Then I have the issues with my sons and prison. One coming out and the other probably going in soon. My ex mother-in-law dying with cancer and I am schizoaffective with depression and anxiety to befgin with. So, my mind creates little scenes to torture me on a nighly basis. I would like to hurt myself to relieve the pressure. But my sons will notice. I can't commit suicide, my youngest son has no one else. I have no family besides my sister and I can't live wth her. I am stuck in this situation and can find no way out that wont hurt somebody. ![]()
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aww Lostmom, this sounds like a nightmare. yes you need to get out. if you can't do it now, start planning, check with county services about shared living with other women.
the whole thing is totally dysfunctional. sounds pretty obvious that he had sex with your niece, and he should probably be charged with it. i don't want to set you off, just saying what looks like to me. and sounds like he is having sex with other women, whatever the reason it doesn't really matter. if you want a committed relationship, you deserve that. i think it's clear he's fooling around, and he's hinting at coming clean about it, so he admits to smaller things. he probably won't ever really admit what he's done, especially the illegal nature of the niece, who should've had him watching out for her, not having sex with her. i'm so sorry you're going through this. last thing you need with all the stress with the kids already. but you must start planning to get out. maybe you would be single for awhile, but you deserve to find a man as strong and caring as you!!!! ![]() be as strong as you can, please don't hurt yourself, you are very loved. pm me if you want. xoxo |
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(((LostMom3)))
I am so sorry. ![]() I'd certainly advise you to contact your county's Social Services department for help asap. The social workers are very good and kind. They do have YOUR best interests in mind when coming up with options for you to choose from. While the thought of ending your life may feel awfully tempting at times, try to remember the good times. Getting out of this current bad situation will bring a lot more good times back into your life again, making your life more manageable. Please don't forget that people truly love you and they want you to be happier. ![]() ![]()
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