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Jun 01, 2006, 01:48 PM
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i dont think i will ever be able to :
not worry about things that MIGHT happen not worry that he is mad at me if he doesn't have anything to say not worry that he thinks i have someone else if i am late getting home why cant i just grow up and let the little things go????? why cant i except that if he doesn t want to talk, it doesnt mean that he doesnt love me or want to talk to talk to me personally?????? ( iguess cause when his friends call he can talk to them....but when i call he is too busy or doesnt have anything to say) maybe i am having a bad day and should just let it go!!! i just get tired it!
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Jun 01, 2006, 02:12 PM
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I am so sorry you are feeling like this! I hate it when I get those feelings.
 My T said it was because I was so codependent. The book Bounderies has helped me sooooo much. If you have time look it up.(((((((((((((mrb)))))))))))) |
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Jun 01, 2006, 09:51 PM
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Sweetheart, from what you've told me, it's his words that make you insecure. It's not YOUR fault! He needs to stop making you feel so bad.
 {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Mel}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
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Jun 01, 2006, 10:23 PM
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I totally know where you are coming from on this!!
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Jun 02, 2006, 11:52 AM
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I tend to spend far too much time invested in worrying about things that MIGHT happen, and that he is made at me, or something is wrong if he doesn't say much. It certainly does use up a lot of energy and I have to constantly remind myself to stop it.
I am sorry you are going through this Mel. Yes, it is very tiring!
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Jun 02, 2006, 01:37 PM
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Just a tone my hubby uses sometimes with me makes me worry! It has had me have panic attacks b4. This is something I am working on. Feel like a kid sometimes.
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