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Old Oct 19, 2012, 01:26 PM
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So I like this guy.. and tomorrow is sweetest day.
He doesnt know me, but I'm sort of friends with one of his friends.
I was thinking i could leave a note on his windshield?
Something simple, like:

Ethan,
Happy Sweetest Day!
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Your Secret Admirer

Creepy? Or Cute?? & where do i go from there?
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Old Oct 19, 2012, 01:52 PM
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I don't see an issue with it heck finding out someone likes you is kinda exciting I think. Good luck
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Old Oct 19, 2012, 02:04 PM
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Are you going to sign your name or think he'll know its you? I feel its better to give it to him and not be anonymous because then he wouldn't know or might be creeped out. Its a nice gesture - I think sign your name so your gesture doesn't go to waste and good luck.
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Old Oct 19, 2012, 03:26 PM
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So I like this guy.. and tomorrow is sweetest day.
He doesnt know me, but I'm sort of friends with one of his friends.
I was thinking i could leave a note on his windshield?
Something simple, like:

Ethan,
Happy Sweetest Day!
,
Your Secret Admirer

Creepy? Or Cute?? & where do i go from there?
I would be flattered to find a note like that on my car! Not creepy at all but it would drive me nuts not to know who it was!!!
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Old Oct 19, 2012, 07:45 PM
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maybe you could give him a clue as to who it was. or give one of his friends a heads up. that way, if he is intersted in you, he can sort of solve the puzzle or whatever, as to who you are

it would drive me INSANE to get a note like that, and not have any way to possibly know who gave it.
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Old Oct 20, 2012, 01:13 PM
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I don't see an issue with it heck finding out someone likes you is kinda exciting I think. Good luck
See! That's what I think too! But my friends tell me I'm being stalkerish!
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Old Oct 20, 2012, 01:13 PM
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Are you going to sign your name or think he'll know its you? I feel its better to give it to him and not be anonymous because then he wouldn't know or might be creeped out. Its a nice gesture - I think sign your name so your gesture doesn't go to waste and good luck.
Okay! How about a Nick name? My friends call me Glowie. Could i sign that?
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Old Oct 20, 2012, 01:14 PM
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maybe you could give him a clue as to who it was. or give one of his friends a heads up. that way, if he is intersted in you, he can sort of solve the puzzle or whatever, as to who you are

it would drive me INSANE to get a note like that, and not have any way to possibly know who gave it.
Yeah, I'll let Cori know! Maybe then she can hint to him. But i do hope it makes him thinK!
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Old Oct 20, 2012, 05:12 PM
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Hey, best of luck to you! lol I think he'll find it exciting for finding out who it is, at the very lest. I hope it goes well!
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Old Oct 20, 2012, 05:45 PM
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Okay! How about a Nick name? My friends call me Glowie. Could i sign that?
I like that idea! Sign it Glowie so maybe he can ask around and one of your friends will let him know so he can solve the mystery on his own.

I think its so cute though! Not stalkerish at all! Good luck to you
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Old Oct 20, 2012, 09:49 PM
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It would drive me to be insaner than usual! It sounds like a great idea, since you are a girl that is. If a guy did it to a girl, it would likely be seen as stalkerish.
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Old Oct 22, 2012, 03:25 PM
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See! That's what I think too! But my friends tell me I'm being stalkerish!
A stalker does not give "secret admirer" notes. You're not obsessed with the guy, just not ready to reveal who you are and testing the waters before breaking the ice. Completely different behavior from a stalker who obsesses over another and watches and follows. Unless you're doing all of those things that's what makes a stalker, completely different thing. Don't worry.

And to the responses that it would drive them nuts not to know who sent a note, it would make me curious but to know someone is attracted to me and took the time to let me know even only if anonymously... that's still flattering. If she kept on doing it and never approached or gave me ways to figure out who she is, I'd go mad at that point but as an initial note, I think it's cute and flattering...
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Old Oct 22, 2012, 03:26 PM
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It would drive me to be insaner than usual! It sounds like a great idea, since you are a girl that is. If a guy did it to a girl, it would likely be seen as stalkerish.
Again, leaving a note isn't stalkerish. A note that says "i'm watching you" is. Of course keep in mind most stalkers would never leave a note at all! They'd just, well... stalk!
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Old Oct 23, 2012, 08:12 AM
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Just sign a nickname like you said and see where it goes lol please make sure to come back and give us an update as well. Good luck
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Old Oct 23, 2012, 05:11 PM
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Again, leaving a note isn't stalkerish. A note that says "i'm watching you" is. Of course keep in mind most stalkers would never leave a note at all! They'd just, well... stalk!
lol This. As long as you don't become the odd bush in the parking lot that tends to change locations every now and then, you're golden.
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Old Oct 24, 2012, 08:59 AM
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lol This. As long as you don't become the odd bush in the parking lot that tends to change locations every now and then, you're golden.
LMAO! The odd bush that changes locations...
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Old Oct 24, 2012, 11:44 AM
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Soooo how did it go? Did it go?
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Old Oct 24, 2012, 12:23 PM
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Soooo how did it go? Did it go?
lol I think you just surmised the whole of our feelings right now. We're rooting for you!
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Old Oct 25, 2012, 05:59 PM
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Soooo how did it go? Did it go?
Im dying with anticipation to find out too!
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Old Oct 25, 2012, 07:37 PM
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This is SO SO SO cute! I wish I had the brain to think of that for the guy I like. I just sit there idly and awkwardly.
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